[Irish&Growing]

What are important factors in mentaly stimulating a woman?

[Radiohead]

There is no such thing. If your girlfriend loves you, then you mentally turn her on. If she doesn't love you, then you don't mentally turn her on.

Don't act like a jack ass, wear clean clothes, brush your teeth (and floss!), take a shower, be polite, pay for everything. This is just common sense. There is no ''Mentally stimulate a woman 101'' class. The human mind is too complex to generalize like that. Everybody is different.

[W.M.P.]

There's no blueprint when it comes to dealing with women, but smart women certainly do keep track of certain traits in a potential mate, such as altruism, listening skills, smarts, independence, maturity, being considerate of others, having at least a basic sense of ethical behavior, ect. There's one thing for sure that I (and 100% of the women I've dated) disagree on with Radiohead: Paying for everything. Women here in NY are VERY independent and they find it a turn-off when a guy insists on paying for everything.

[PunaniPunisher]

Originally Posted by Radiohead

There is no such thing. If your girlfriend loves you, then you mentally turn her on. If she doesn't love you, then you don't mentally turn her on.

Don't act like a jack ass, wear clean clothes, brush your teeth (and floss!), take a shower, be polite, pay for everything. This is just common sense. There is no ''Mentally stimulate a woman 101'' class. The human mind is too complex to generalize like that. Everybody is different.

i agree with everything EXCEPT PAY FOR EVERYTHING. hell no if she gotta job then she can get her own. ill pay 60-75% of the time. not a dick, im just devilishly handsome and dont need to pay for sex.

[Irish&Growing]

I think everyone is getting the wrong idea from this poll.If your see a nice looking chick at the bar and want to get laid these are things to do to improve your chances on taking her home.Relationship stuff is alittle more complicated.I still dont understand chicks entirely yet and the male race as a whole probably never will.Completly discovering how a girl ticks mentaly whould be in my opinion the eqivelent of discoving how to make cold fusion work,lol. Men have certain paterns and women have their own.Pretty much all the things I listed above if executed properly will instill two things in a girls mind,1:a sense of being protected and safe and 2:comfort.Usualy but not always if a chick can feel that you are no danger,a protective figure and comfortable to be with then Id day 8 times outta 10 its in the bag.Another thing I found that works phenomenal is once you get past their protective sheild and you strike up a conversation do everything you can to keep her talking about herself and things that are going on with her.Talk as little as possible and take mental notes of important stuff she says just incase theres a mini pop-quiz sometime during to conversation,which tends to get hard after you have more and more drinks.But for me this has worked alot.Once a chick feels like the most important girl in the room theres no better aphrodesiac.For you single guys give it a go and you'll see.Im not the best lookin guy around,Im 5'6",170lbs.,I rock a beird at all times(No exceptions),I got long hair and I got a slight uni-brow.Needless to say my friends are dumbfounded when I pull it off.I just tell em,"Let them talk and leave your ego at the door".And of course they laugh at me.I havent bagged 2 chicks at the same time yet,but Im hoping,lol

[W.M.P.]

I&G...you are well on your path to livin' it up like a certified rockstar; you're unto something good...trust me. Back in my teens and all through most of my 20's, I was also of the belief (like our buds Radiohaed and PunaniPunisher) that "if she loves you then you're all set"..........but eventually I found out that I was as wrong as could be. Once I started to put some effort into learning about what makes women tick, then my luck and overall experience with women did a complete turnaround for the best. The more I've put my ego aside and opened myself up to the TONS of info and knowledge there is out there about women and what makes them tick, the more I've been able to enjoy a life that I previously thought only pornstars get to live. When all is said and done, a woman's most sensitive and powerful sexual organ sits right between her ears; learn how to tickle her gray matter and you're a made man.

[Irish&Growing]

hahaha,pornstars...just a bunch bitchasses with Viagra saturated dicks and ultra-lubed wornout pussys.I gotta work for my pussy...well maybe not all the time(depends on the girl),lol.I learned a long time ago I wasnt gonna get fucked on my looks so I had to fish and every fisherman knows you have to present the right bait the right way or you wont get a bite.Im a scruffy lookin dude,but its my choice.I choose to look the way I do because of my philosephy,"Why the fuck should I change for anybody just to be accepted by the population".The key is studying,reading,testing things out,trial & error.The only articles about what turns chicks on that anyone should read should only be written by woman and I suggest all men do it.Fuck Iv read Cosmo before(it felt like I was spying on the enemy or something) just to read the advice women were giving women about men...they dont have a fucking clue.We're simple,instinctive,crude,hairy animalistic,sexualy charged trolls and this women didnt even know anything about men period.This about sums it up about mens ways Man Rules and any dude who denies it...theres just plain something wrong.I know its a bad analogy but when it comes to attraction women are kinda like hungry fish present the right bait the right way when they're hungry and you'll usualy get a bite and if you present the bait just right you catch the fish.Just dont fuckup in some stupid way and let em spit the hook,lol. Thanks a million for seeing what I see.