[LookAlive]

Just the one, we've been together since I lost my virginity at 15 and I'd be more than happy never to sleep with anyone else!

LookAlive

[Pegasus]

Hey that's cute Lookalive.
Might I ask why the numbers in the poll are skewed toward the low numbers?
It's not as though 20 is very many, especially as many of our members have more than 20years sexual experience

[baybabe]

Question for you guys...
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. He said "Ohhh Im sure you got around..." I said not really, gawd! So I throw out the number of guys I've been with, may be off in either direction by one or two. He says "Oh my god! I cant believe you just said that, I would NEVER tell you the exact number of people I slept with! omg" I was like wtf? What just happen here? He said "leave some mystery" I thought, what the fuck you need mystery in that area for? I dont get his reaction AT ALL. Maybe you guys feel the same and can clarify why he was blown away by me giving an answer? My last bf's always wanted to know the exact number to the point that it was annoying.

[burt]

Originally Posted by five_dollar_footlong

thats funny cause out of all my life i only slept with 2 and the rest that pick 20+ i think thats a bull$hit cause i have friends that get laid alot every now and then and they havnt had reach 20 diffrent girls they might of slept with the same girl more than once out numbering 20 but with diffrent girls thats B.S
but dont get me wrong alot of people have done it i just think some young kids are trying to own up on there age by picking 20+ and messing up the true test result for this question

Well I've definitely had more than 20 and its not bullshit. I've been with very close to 50 women now, I guess 48 or 49. I'm 31 and started having sex at 17, never been married, and always played the field. If you break that down it comes to about 3.5 per year. Thats NOT a lot...hell, I know other men that have lots more than me. Besides, my g/f and I like to do 3-somes, so that accounts for a few of my number. Burt

[five_dollar_footlong]

Originally Posted by burt

Well I've definitely had more than 20 and its not bullshit. I've been with very close to 50 women now, I guess 48 or 49. I'm 31 and started having sex at 17, never been married, and always played the field. If you break that down it comes to about 3.5 per year. Thats NOT a lot...hell, I know other men that have lots more than me. Besides, my g/f and I like to do 3-somes, so that accounts for a few of my number. Burt

WOW if this is true i respect as young adult cause im commited right now (keep it up and you will reach 100)

[Pegasus]

Wonder how many Happy stud's up to, but then it is his hobby. For the rest of us though, if you have more than 2o partners over more than 20 years of being sexually active it is not a big deal.

BB I don't get his reaction either. On the other hand women lie about number of partners, often even to themselves, so there is no point asking them. I mean no disrespect, this is caused by social attitudes to women having large numbers of partners.

[burt]

Originally Posted by Pegasus

Wonder how many Happy stud's up to, but then it is his hobby. For the rest of us though, if you have more than 2o partners over more than 20 years of being sexually active it is not a big deal.

BB I don't get his reaction either. On the other hand women lie about number of partners, often even to themselves, so there is no point asking them. I mean no disrespect, this is caused by social attitudes to women having large numbers of partners.

There's a saying about women I've always heard....however many men they tell you they've slept with, multiply that by five and you'll be closer to the answer. There still is a double standard when it comes to men and women. If women have slept with lots of men, they might be considered "sluts'' by others or even themselves. I don't think they are, hell, if I was a woman I'd be fucking all the time. But you know how society is. So, that's what they are up against. On a personal note, I think the "experienced" women are sexier because they tend to be more adventurous in bed. Burt

[HotRod]

Originally Posted by baybabe

Question for you guys...
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. He said "Ohhh Im sure you got around..." I said not really, gawd! So I throw out the number of guys I've been with, may be off in either direction by one or two. He says "Oh my god! I cant believe you just said that, I would NEVER tell you the exact number of people I slept with! omg" I was like wtf? What just happen here? He said "leave some mystery" I thought, what the fuck you need mystery in that area for? I dont get his reaction AT ALL. Maybe you guys feel the same and can clarify why he was blown away by me giving an answer? My last bf's always wanted to know the exact number to the point that it was annoying.

I think the rule of thumb is NEVER give precise answers to questions that haven't been asked.

Unless your boyfriend says, "How many other guys have you been with?", don't tell. And even if he does ask, you're better off if you refuse to give precise information. Unless he's your soul mate it's really none of his business....unless you have herpes or HIV-AIDS.

It goes back to the old adage: Don't kiss and tell.

It doesn't really matter why he reacted the way he did. It's probably more complex than even he knows. But just don't reveal details of your sexual past unless you are asked for specifics, and even then it's usually wise to be conservative and maybe even use the saying, "I don't kiss and tell."

My guess? When you gave him the number, it made him feel like he was about as special as every other guy in your memory.

[shane_syndrome]

im 19 and im only at 14 now and i didnt lose it until i was 17 and then my number jumped because i spent a full summer in wasaga beach (a huge tourest/ party beach) when i was 18 and theni went out with a girl and she introduced me to all her friends and I guess girls like to fuck there friends ex boyfriends right after they brake up.

[PEkid]

ive only been with 2 girls...im 23 btw, its not as may as u guys but i am picky when it comes to having sex with girls...i guess i have a somewhat feminine personality in that i want to have sex with somebody until i truly know them and im truly comfortable with them...