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Originally Posted by HotRod I think the rule of thumb is NEVER give precise answers to questions that haven't been asked.
Unless your boyfriend says, "How many other guys have you been with?", don't tell. And even if he does ask, you're better off if you refuse to give precise information. Unless he's your soul mate it's really none of his business....unless you have herpes or HIV-AIDS.
It goes back to the old adage: Don't kiss and tell.
It doesn't really matter why he reacted the way he did. It's probably more complex than even he knows. But just don't reveal details of your sexual past unless you are asked for specifics, and even then it's usually wise to be conservative and maybe even use the saying, "I don't kiss and tell."
My guess? When you gave him the number, it made him feel like he was about as special as every other guy in your memory. |
Yep sounds about right...my bad. Its just that this topic has came up numerous times and he said in the past something like... that I must have been with a large number of guys because of my skills in the bedroom department. I told him no not very many guys, I'm just a fast learner lol. So this time when it came up I figured it was bothering him or he was feeling insecure cause i just went to this big party with my girls. That night I was telling him that I was lucky to have some great work experience because my old bosses took me under there wing, then he says "Oh Im SURE they did" I thought "What? How is this topic sexual?" then he says that Im oblivious to men coming on to me and that my personality is a people pleaser, then he mimics me by saying "Uh huh, sure, what else can I DO FOR YOU?" while he's making motions with his tongue and acting like ME sucking my bosses dick what the hell Mr.ImNotJealous?