[Justin56537]

Had a women try that one night and I didn't mind it, but that was a long time ago. If a women wanted to do it fine, but I wouldn't ask her to do it. So ya not much experience here. I sometimes use my fingers on a women during intercourse when I can see she is getting close to cumming. Most seem to like that a lot.

[not2big]

I bought a prostate massager on line because it was on sale. I have used it three or four times with mostly positive results. When I kegeled (need to do at least 100) while it was inserted I could definitely feel additional stimulation which improved my EQ a bit. My impression is that it enhances the effect of kegeling. I used it while having sex with my wife and it mostly helped improve my EQ, although on one occasion it had no effect at all.

My wife, of course, had no idea I was using it. It was embarrassing just laying there waiting for my wife to go to the bathroom so I could remove it.

I feel stupid bending over to insert it, but I don't feel gay because I am using it for "straight" purposes.

[Radiohead]

Wow this thread is getting a lot of attention within a really short time frame.

Notice how there are more votes than actual replies :P. hehe I think it's great that we can discuss this openly.

Keep the replies coming!

[Gator]

I'll be open about it...and I'm 100% straight

My fingers have gone venturing into the never-never-land before. It's fairly uncomfortable unless you do it easily.
One thing I noticed, when you stimulate your prostate while edging or on the edge, you can triple the intensity of your orgasm.

Don't believe me? TRY IT.

[NP97]

Very true... yet I don't like it. Not just from the idea of getting some chocolate from my Hershey Highway.... but moreso... I tried it, no likey. Bleh. Too strange.

[Johnlocke]

I have recently starting doing this with my girlfriend. She likes anal and it turns me on like hell when I give it to her. Anyway sometimes my finger in my own makes her knees quiver - it turns her on like crazy and she loves it, I enjoy the feeling but I'm not good at it yet. I will say it's enjoyable and I do it sometimes but never anything more then a finger or two. I AM NOT GAY IN THE SLIGHTEST, WOMAN ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING ON EARTH AND I HAVE NO INTEREST IN MEN OR IN A TOY BEING INSERTED IN ME, I AM JUST ENJOYING THE BODY I HAVE BEEN GIVEN, WITH MY OWN TWO FINGERS.

:P - Sorry for caps but I wanted to make that clear

[Pirate99]

I find it interesting that almost everyone has to declare his hetro-ness before he can talk about anal play. This is an excellent thread and it is good that we are talking about it.
I have a prostate vibrator but have only tried it a couple of times. I like the idea of trying it during PE or kegeling but I think that I will need a lot of time to get relaxed enough to make it a successful experiment.
Did I mention that I am straight?

[king303]

I have also tried this a few times and sometimes it was good and sometimes it felt bad. I saw on TV once that if you excersize the prostate there is less chance of cancer and it is healthy to stick a dildo upthere once or twice a year, don't remember what show I saw this on but its true, but like I said I tried it and as of right now its not for me, one thing I will say is that when I was experimenting with this getting my ass whole licked was the best, but it only felt good the first time. I am also straight.

[kingpole]

No, but hey as a medical person i have stuck my fingers up many asses, part of the job i really don't like. I usually wear two pairs of gloves on each hand.

[Batwoman]

Are you guys ready for a female perspective on this?

I engage in anal play with my lover regularly, and we both enjoy it. He loves it when I stroke and penetrate his ass during lovemaking. But it took a long time to get up the courage and trust to try it. In retrospect, it seems kind of funny to both of us that we each spent so many years having sex and so carefully avoiding anything having to do with the anus of our various partners. It's like it's got "do not touch here" signs all around it. Given the various cultural taboos we have, I think it takes a man who is confident in his manhood and sexuality to give it a try. I appreciate that, and completely understand how hard it can be to voyage into the unknown this way.

Anyway, we started really slowly. Most of our early play was in the shower, when I would stroke is anus with a soapy finger and he liked it. Soon he asked for a little penetration, and we tried that, and we both liked it. At the same time we were starting to experiment with more standard anal sex (him taking me), so I was getting the same treatment and it was fun for us to talk about and explore the sensations together. If you think about it, anal sex is one of the few areas in which men and women have a lot of the same anatomical parts, so we share many of the same sensations.

After we explored the pleasures of soapy fingers, we moved on to more intense play in bed with lots of lube. My man enjoys a lot of penetration, but only when there is plenty of time and nothing is rushed. Usually I lick or such his cock and balls at the same time I am sliding my fingers into his ass, and he really seems to love the whole experience. We have played with anal toys too -- butt plugs and wands and vibrators. The key is always the same: being very gentle with the penetration (at least at first), lots of lube, and taking lots of time (no rushing).

It seems to me from reading the posts here that many of you who have had unsuccessful experiences with anal stimulation have been going it solo. My own experiences in that department are the same. I have tried a butt plug or other anal toy during solo sex, and it has often hurt. I think that was because I was in a hurry and did not get suitably warmed up. When I am with my man, he always makes sure I am warmed up and well lubed and totally ready; and I do the same for him. Hence our experiences together have been really positive, while our solo attempts have been less so.