[Moonstrike]

TOpic, I can do it after only 2 months of kegeling

[Scipio]

I can get a dry orgasm by holding a kegel, the question IMO is more if you can do it without contractions. Haven't got there yet, but that is the true dry orgasm as far as I can understand

[Moonstrike]

I don't see how you can stop it without kegeling, that is the whole point of kegeling isn't it?

[Cernunnos]

Originally Posted by Moonstrike

TOpic, I can do it after only 2 months of kegeling

I can, thanks to kegels. But it depens how aroused I am. Sometimes I still cum quickly if I am really horny.

[Banana]

I can stop ejaculation with kegels although sometimes I lose my erection afterwards.

[kingpole]

Your all getting the hang of it. Soon in time your sessions will be like one big dry orgasm from the begining to the end.

[Scipio]

Originally Posted by Moonstrike

I don't see how you can stop it without kegeling, that is the whole point of kegeling isn't it?

I do use a kegel to stop it, when you do it this way, the sperm is stopped but you still contract as a respons to your orgasm and your dick will loose it's erection.

The more advanced version as I understand it is to master the natural instinct to contract, thus remaining in the state right before PONR as long as you choose. This way you can have an orgasm but be able to have a rock hard penis afterwards and possible multiple orgasms right away.

Annyway, this is tantric teqnichues, and I am in no way an expert on the field. I'm trying to learn it though.

[Hairtrigger]

Originally Posted by Banana

I can stop ejaculation with kegels although sometimes I lose my erection afterwards.

It is strange but sometimes this happens to me, I have no idea why. If I stop the ejaculation without having an orgasm I will lose my erection slightly, I would say maybe 2 out of 10 times but my erection returns after another 5 minutes just as strong. I don't all of the sudden go flaccid just maybe a 60-80%. It may have something to do with timing or even psychological, maybe one of the other guys will know but I don't think there will be much we could do about it other than just get more practice time in, some things are beyond our control.

[kingpole]

Originally Posted by Hairtrigger

It is strange but sometimes this happens to me, I have no idea why. If I stop the ejaculation without having an orgasm I will lose my erection slightly, I would say maybe 2 out of 10 times but my erection returns after another 5 minutes just as strong. I don't all of the sudden go flaccid just maybe a 60-80%. It may have something to do with timing or even psychological, maybe one of the other guys will know but I don't think there will be much we could do about it other than just get more practice time in, some things are beyond our control.

This sounds like retrograde ejaculation. The cum ends up in your bladder. Best thing to do is work it up again and ejaculate. As one practices edging you can learn when your prostate starts to fire ejaculate up the shaft. Almost by feel you can feel the gun begin to load up. This is when you put your hand on a less sensitive spot of your shaft and do lighter strokes,

[Banana]

Originally Posted by Hairtrigger

It is strange but sometimes this happens to me, I have no idea why. If I stop the ejaculation without having an orgasm I will lose my erection slightly, I would say maybe 2 out of 10 times but my erection returns after another 5 minutes just as strong. I don't all of the sudden go flaccid just maybe a 60-80%. It may have something to do with timing or even psychological, maybe one of the other guys will know but I don't think there will be much we could do about it other than just get more practice time in, some things are beyond our control.

Exactly the same as me!! The erection comes back after about 5 minutes.

I think that this happens when I kegel to stop ejaculation just a bit later and probably a retrograde ejaculation, like kingpole suggested, takes place.