[Spicoli]

I have a really terrible case of PE. I was a virgin until last night. I had sex last night for the first time without a condom. But I only lasted about 5 seconds! Really. I have always had this problem while masturbation too. I would last no more than a minute.

I've been looking online for cures. But I can't figure out which are scams and which aren't. I heard that books are the best way to go. Any suggestions?

[wonderboy]

Hey man, don't feel bad..

The 'cure' that most people here would suggest is Kegels.

[Spicoli]

Originally Posted by wonderboy

The 'cure' that most people here would suggest is Kegels.

Are kegels the only way to go?

[kingpole]

Kegels and edging combined.

[Spicoli]

Originally Posted by kingpole

Kegels and edging combined.

And that will cure PE?

[ajmarket]

You most likely don't have pe. . . You were a virgin, of course you're gonna cum quickly. You felt a new sensation you've never before felt.

I was dating a girl for over 3 years. . In the begining we were having sex more than twice a day, sometimes 5 times a day

There was a couple of times I went for nearly two hours and also a couple of times that I literally busted as soon as I inserted my penis (usually after a few days of no sex and following some really good head) so obviously since we were in love and together for so long she understood. . We both laughed and tried again after a few minutes.

Its probably a lot harder explaining to some random girl that u usually last longer lol, but don't worry man. You just need to find someone, wheather it be a gf or just someone you have sex with . . Who you can practice with

[going411by7]

Good advice! Practice makes perfect. I also agree that kegels will help premature ejaculation.

[Jelqasaurus]

Originally Posted by going411by7

Good advice! Practice makes perfect. I also agree that kegels will help premature ejaculation.

I've been doing kegels and my goal is just to become a MOM. That way I can share as many (hopefully) orgasms as the lady does! I've made some significany progress. Also, it's helped dramatically with my EQ. I woke up from a one (1) hour nap with a missle protruding from my pubis. Awesome.

[epsilon]

Originally Posted by Spicoli

I have a really terrible case of PE. I was a virgin until last night. I had sex last night for the first time without a condom. But I only lasted about 5 seconds! Really. I have always had this problem while masturbation too. I would last no more than a minute.

I've been looking online for cures. But I can't figure out which are scams and which aren't. I heard that books are the best way to go. Any suggestions?

Just try first Edging and Ballooning. When you stroke subdue and fight the sensation (don't know how I put it in words, that's one of my methods when I see the girl still has a long time to cum and I'm cumming). When you master edging for an hour try it in the real woman.. Listen to the other advice. Lastly believe that you can be cured who knows maybe your just to excited since its your firstime..

[Larger]

Originally Posted by Spicoli

I have a really terrible case of PE. I was a virgin until last night. I had sex last night for the first time without a condom. But I only lasted about 5 seconds! Really. I have always had this problem while masturbation too. I would last no more than a minute.

I've been looking online for cures. But I can't figure out which are scams and which aren't. I heard that books are the best way to go. Any suggestions?

There are several reasons why you didn't last long. The top one is psychological, anxiety or the thought of ejaculating was on your mind. You were probably nervous because you were thinking how you would compare to the others. Also when you are not wearing a condom there is more of a sensation and that will cause you not to last as long either. Condoms help with that.

Things are learned though, and since you trained your penis to last only a minute during masturbation you need to re-educate your penis. It's going to take time, but edging and kegels will help you learn. Also finding a rhythm will help you last longer. If masturbation you find you don't last long, then with a vagina I'm positive the time won't be better.

But as I have said, speaking from first-hand experience, you can change anything you want about yourself, just have to be dedicated.