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    I've been edging and doing kegels and RK for about 2 months and now I'm able to achieve DO during masturbation, I go beyond PONR, stop masturbating and hold a strong kegel untill the orgasm pass. But if I reach PONR, hold a strong kegel and keep stroking I CAN'T avoid the ejaculation. I wonder if I keep trainning my PC muscles I'll be able to avoid the ejaculation without stop stroking/thursting (and how long should it take, I'm doing kegels about 2 months)? And how should I proceed in sex: Should I take off my penis of her vagina and hold a strong kegel untill the orgasm pass, should I just stop thrusting and hold a hard kegel INSIDE of her or should I try to hold a hard kegel and keep thrusting (what I'm not able to do right now)?

    I'm really in doubt about this = /.

    PS: I'm sorry if I wrote something wrong, I'm brazilian and my english isn't the better. Please feel free to correct me, thanks. =)

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    Just stay inside of her and kegel and don't move till the ponr passes. Or pull out and do oral or other things while you hold the kegel, it's up to you.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by R10 View Post
      I've been edging and doing kegels and RK for about 2 months and now I'm able to achieve DO during masturbation, I go beyond PONR, stop masturbating and hold a strong kegel untill the orgasm pass. But if I reach PONR, hold a strong kegel and keep stroking I CAN'T avoid the ejaculation. I wonder if I keep trainning my PC muscles I'll be able to avoid the ejaculation without stop stroking/thursting (and how long should it take, I'm doing kegels about 2 months)? And how should I proceed in sex: Should I take off my penis of her vagina and hold a strong kegel untill the orgasm pass, should I just stop thrusting and hold a hard kegel INSIDE of her or should I try to hold a hard kegel and keep thrusting (what I'm not able to do right now)?

      I'm really in doubt about this = /.

      PS: I'm sorry if I wrote something wrong, I'm brazilian and my english isn't the better. Please feel free to correct me, thanks. =)
      Your English is pretty good considering its not your native language. If you hold a kegel to keep from ejaculating, it will help to delay the flow. The problem with that is it also creates an overwhelming sensation to blow it all out. I tried that one night and nearly rolled myself off the bed. Once you're inside the vagina, you really shouldn't pull it back out. It may alarm your partner that something is wrong. You don't want to interrupt your mutual rhythm. I'll be interested in seeing what others post in response. Good question.
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      • #4
        Originally posted by Steve23 View Post
        Just stay inside of her and kegel and don't move till the ponr passes. Or pull out and do oral or other things while you hold the kegel, it's up to you.
        Thanks for the reply Steve.. The problem of staying inside of her (besides of the good sensation inside vagina itself) is that the woman can move (accidentally or not) =/, but I think if I keep on trainning PC muscles and DO I'll be able to overcome this situations. Pulling out it's my option for now, but I can't do other things while I'm stopping the ejaculation coz it requires full concentration and strength, besides it takes only 10-15 seconds to the orgasm pass and then I can keep thrusting with no problems..
        R10
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        Last edited by R10; 10-30-2011, 06:43 PM.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by R10 View Post
          Thanks for the replie Steve.. The problem of staying inside of her (besides of the good sensation inside vagina itself) is that the woman can move (accidentally or not) =/, but I think if I keep on trainning PC muscles and DO I'll be able to overcome this situations. Pulling out it's my option for now, but I can't do other things while I'm stopping the ejaculation coz it requires full concentration and strength, besides it takes only 10-15 seconds to the orgasm pass and then I can keep thrusting with no problems..
          Sounds like a good place to start...
          Porn the unknown disaster of our time.
          the_iron

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Steve23 View Post
            Just stay inside of her and kegel and don't move till the ponr passes. Or pull out and do oral or other things while you hold the kegel, it's up to you.
            You nailed it right on. I do the same. And importantly don't move until it passes.
            Begin 7/25/2011:
            NBPEL 7, BPEL 7.2, MEG 5.6, BEG 6

            Current 12/05/2014:
            FL 5.25, FG 5.2
            NBPEL 7.8, BPEL 8.1, UEG 5.75, MEG 6.25, BEG 6.7

            Long:
            UEG:MEG 6.5

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            • #7
              Originally posted by RickBhmcsb View Post
              Your English is pretty good considering its not your native language. If you hold a kegel to keep from ejaculating, it will help to delay the flow. The problem with that is it also creates an overwhelming sensation to blow it all out. I tried that one night and nearly rolled myself off the bed. Once you're inside the vagina, you really shouldn't pull it back out. It may alarm your partner that something is wrong. You don't want to interrupt your mutual rhythm. I'll be interested in seeing what others post in response. Good question.
              Thanks for the compliment Rick. Actually, in DO I don't delay the flow, it really STOP the flow. It's a very intense sensation that requires full concentration and strength, but it only takes 10-15 s for me. Then the orgasm pass and I can keep on thrusting with no urge to cum, it is like I had ejaculated, but with no cum and my penis stay hard (you probably know this better than me). As I said to Steve "the problem of staying inside of her (besides of the good sensation inside vagina itself) is that the woman can move (accidentally or not) =/, but I think if I keep on trainning PC muscles and DO I'll be able to overcome this situations". It really sucks to have to interrupt the sex for doing this, thats why I wanna know if there is someone experienced in DO who can achieve this without stop thrusting or pulling out the penis. Did you guys achieved this once?

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              • #8
                Originally posted by thenewdude View Post
                You nailed it right on. I do the same. And importantly don't move until it passes.
                Right! Any sudden movements from you might make you ejaculate before you want to.
                Porn the unknown disaster of our time.
                the_iron

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by R10 View Post
                  Thanks for the compliment Rick. Actually, in DO I don't delay the flow, it really STOP the flow. It's a very intense sensation that requires full concentration and strength, but it only takes 10-15 s for me. Then the orgasm pass and I can keep on thrusting with no urge to cum, it is like I had ejaculated, but with no cum and my penis stay hard (you probably know this better than me). As I said to Steve "the problem of staying inside of her (besides of the good sensation inside vagina itself) is that the woman can move (accidentally or not) =/, but I think if I keep on trainning PC muscles and DO I'll be able to overcome this situations". It really sucks to have to interrupt the sex for doing this, thats why I wanna know if there is someone experienced in DO who can achieve this without stop thrusting or pulling out the penis. Did you guys achieved this once?
                  Great! I'm getting close to achieving that level of holding back the flow. I did it one night purely on accident and it felt really wild.
                  Porn the unknown disaster of our time.
                  the_iron

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                  • #10
                    But how you guys do to her don't move without being weird? Especially when she is really turned on or near of her orgasm.. its really difficult to make my GF stop at this point, and I think if I have sex with a stranger it probably will be more difficult or weird

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                    • #11
                      You push it in almost all the way but not enough to stretch your skin which may make you cum holding the kegel while doing other things called fondling, touching, kissing. When you push it in, she feels the friction and hold.
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                      NBPEL 7, BPEL 7.2, MEG 5.6, BEG 6

                      Current 12/05/2014:
                      FL 5.25, FG 5.2
                      NBPEL 7.8, BPEL 8.1, UEG 5.75, MEG 6.25, BEG 6.7

                      Long:
                      UEG:MEG 6.5

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                      • #12
                        Two thoughts:

                        (1) Tell you partner that you're working on DO and that you may need to stop to keep from cumming when you don't want to. Then she won't be surprised.

                        (2) I don't know about other women, but I love it when he pushes deep into me and then holds still for a bit. I love the sensations of his hard cock deep inside me, his body pressed against me.... and when we are both still I can hear his breathing and feel his heart beat, which I enjoy. I like to watch his face too, and enjoy it when I see him gazing deep into my eyes too. Or not, if he is concentrating on not cumming and has his attention turned inward. That's nice too. There is no reason why a bit of stillness cannot be enjoyed in the midst of lovemaking!

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                        • #13
                          Agreed! Its funny how a woman can get off with her man's moans and groans. My wife told my, Batwoman, that is it because she gets off on me enjoying myself too (I feel the same way I guess but not to great extents being a dude and all).
                          Begin 7/25/2011:
                          NBPEL 7, BPEL 7.2, MEG 5.6, BEG 6

                          Current 12/05/2014:
                          FL 5.25, FG 5.2
                          NBPEL 7.8, BPEL 8.1, UEG 5.75, MEG 6.25, BEG 6.7

                          Long:
                          UEG:MEG 6.5

                          https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...henewuser.html

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                          • #14
                            I am working towards continuing to thrust while I DO. I cannot, yet, keep from ejaculating eventually think I can get there eventually.
                            Yarrr!
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                            • #15
                              Thanks for the replies guys! My next step will be try to have a DO inside of her... But I still wonder if there is somebody who can achieve a DO without stop thrusting, maybe Pegasus could answer this...

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