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[Glorybetope Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Glorybetope]

Hi all,

this is my first post here, but I have been lurking for the past few months. I just wanted to put my story out here and see if anyone had any advice. I lost my virginity when I was 15. The first time I had sex I was pretty drunk and remember lasting at least ten minutes. Since that first encounter I have never, without drugs or alcohol, been able to last more than a minute or two. I'm 24 now and have had sex with a good amount of chicks. If it weren't for pre e I'd definitely have more notches on my belt though. Sometimes I cum upon penetration and I have even cum before penetration. Getting head I almost cum immediately. Vaginal sex with a condom I can usually last a minute or two. For some reason if I have sex right when I wake up I can last a few minutes longer. I'm pretty sure for me this is a mental thing, but I'm still going to be working on my pelvic floor.

I don't know if it was porn that did this to me but I gave that up a while ago. I do remember rushing masterbation when I was younger to avoid getting caught and even as I got older just out of habit I guess.

Having pre e sucks and it has definitely made me lose chances, but I've never been so confident I could get myself past this since I found this site. Just wanted to thank everyone in advance here at this site. It's really amazing the amount of knowledge that has been accumulated here.

Ok so after the intro a couple questions:
does sexting have the same or similar effect on the brain that porn does? I ask because I sext with this chick all the time and will stop if some of the experts around here believe so.

i read the confusion with reverse kegels thread but am still confused as to whether I'm doing it right could someone explain? I'm not too bright.

And lastly, (not a question), I found that when I'm about to reach PONR if I squat like a catcher would in baseball for five or so seconds it brings me down a level or two and I can continue edging. So if anyone else was having problems with rks that position has helped me to extend my edging sessions. Anyway thanks again guys would love some advice and input on anything and everything.

glorybetope

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Thanks man I've read through all the main threads. Really good stuff. Any opinion on the sexting thing? I've been doing it since I can remember either on my phone or in chat rooms. Just wondering if it has a similar effect on my brain as porn does.

[tanaka Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tanaka]

IMO PE isn't mental, some of us are just wired that way. We have to learn to deal with it. Jacking off a few hours prior to an encounter works pretty well, I think. Also, if you can get really really close to the PONR, cum a bit but not completely, it seems you get some staying power after that. Sexting: no idea, too old for that.

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Controled partial ejaculation is more difficult than dry orgasm. Minuteman has a how to dry orgasm guide.

[Sonny747 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sonny747]

The first time i nutted with a girl it was in my pants. PE has mad me lose sooo many chances. That's probably a good thing though. I've never had a disease or an unplanned pregnancy that I know of. PE definitely sucks.. It's like I can tell it's going to happen. I'll be eating a girl and I can tell it's going to happen. At times I've just jacked off while eating her and then having sex without her ever knowing it happened. Sorry about your sheets

I notice that a routine of jelquing seems to help. Learning to reverse kegel and relax my body also helped. There are some decent condoms that have numbing cream in them already. They work well. It doesn't feel like normal numbing cream, it's more subtle.

For some reason bj's make me cum in a few licks. So embarrassing. I haven't had a sober bj since beginning my exercise program so hopefully this will get better.

A few years ago I was with a girl that refused to use condoms. (A PE guys worst nightmare). At that time I started researching Pre E. I tried all of the supplements, but they didn't seem to help. Two things definitely helped. One day I took 20 mg of Celexa before going to her house and banged the CRAP out of her with no condom. I had total control. Another thing that seems to help is Mucinex. I believe it's the antihistamine. In some men low serotonin levels and high histamine levels can cause PE. Maybe I have both.

A cock ring may also help. I have noticed that if I tie a lasso around my base I have more control plus my rod gets super engorged.

As for porn and texting.. I don't know if it's a cause.. Doubt it. I hope this helps you out.