I know it seems contradictory, but I am suffering from all of the above. It seems to swing wildly between, some days I'll have to go for hours and work hard to be able to come (mostly unsuccessfully), yet others I can hardly bear any stimulation at all without ejaculating (with no or very mild orgasm). I once came without any stimulation at all whilst fingering my girlfriend.
I am on SSRI antidepressants (bipolar, whoop-di-fucking-do), which are well known for causing delayed orgasm and sexual problems, so that is no mystery (it can even be misinterpreted as stamina, which is useful). I imagine the ED is linked to that, but the premature ejaculation is a new one, and it is incredibly frustrating. I seem to have quite a long refractory period, which makes sex a brief and disappointing orgasm, then a lot of waiting, then half-a-hard-on that just can't summon the will to stay up. I never know quite which problem I'll have on any day.
I am a 23 year old (even though I write like an old man) male (duh), in relatively good health (if a smidgen over-weight), and it does concern me (I should stop using parentheses now) that this is happening to me so early in my life. It's taken me years to get a girlfriend and a sex life, and although she is wonderfully understanding and fantastic in all ways possible, this does affect her, as she often has trouble climaxing as it is. This is probably a lot to do with our inexperience, but it would be much easier to learn if the educational equipment were working properly.
Any help would be appreciated, particularly if it was in the form of a magical pill that would solve all these problems, plus give me a six pack, double my penis size, and gift me the power of flight. Alternatively, advice on the myriad of creams and supplements available to us gullible men would be appreciated. Or just some old fashioned exercises that I can repeatedly forget to do.
Cheers, and thanks in advance
I am on SSRI antidepressants (bipolar, whoop-di-fucking-do), which are well known for causing delayed orgasm and sexual problems, so that is no mystery (it can even be misinterpreted as stamina, which is useful). I imagine the ED is linked to that, but the premature ejaculation is a new one, and it is incredibly frustrating. I seem to have quite a long refractory period, which makes sex a brief and disappointing orgasm, then a lot of waiting, then half-a-hard-on that just can't summon the will to stay up. I never know quite which problem I'll have on any day.
I am a 23 year old (even though I write like an old man) male (duh), in relatively good health (if a smidgen over-weight), and it does concern me (I should stop using parentheses now) that this is happening to me so early in my life. It's taken me years to get a girlfriend and a sex life, and although she is wonderfully understanding and fantastic in all ways possible, this does affect her, as she often has trouble climaxing as it is. This is probably a lot to do with our inexperience, but it would be much easier to learn if the educational equipment were working properly.
Any help would be appreciated, particularly if it was in the form of a magical pill that would solve all these problems, plus give me a six pack, double my penis size, and gift me the power of flight. Alternatively, advice on the myriad of creams and supplements available to us gullible men would be appreciated. Or just some old fashioned exercises that I can repeatedly forget to do.
Cheers, and thanks in advance
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