[pensil]

This GF of mine just a gentle hug of mine makes her panties wet, without much foreplay she wants me to get hump her, she rises her hip like crazy and she wants me to go hard right from the beginning, her moans and body language also makes me hard but the problem is i build my load quickly if i slow down to subdued and relax a bit, she dose not like this slowing down, so i end up going very hard and blowing it off quickly, i feel guilty of edning with in 10mins the whole action.

Is it possible for me to go hard without blowing the loads (before PE it was possible for me becasue my unit was not senstive, infact i had to mastrubte on my own to blow the load off after sex)

But now i like the sensation and happy to cum inside her (which was not possible earlier)

Help please to last longer with same sensation and ability to cum inside her.

[shane_syndrome]

try edging for long periods of time

[pensil]

shane,

I feel edging with light grip is what made my unit sensitive and makes me build up my load quickly.

[Pegasus]

If you edge until you can go through the ponr you will have great stamina and multi orgasms.
On the other hand, it sounds as if she wants you to cum quickly.

[PhibbysHammer]

Try a condom or desensitizing formula.

[jadzeno69]

You will go much longer if you focus more on pleasing her than focusing on trying not to cum. If it helps at first, try thinking of something to take your mind off of the sensation. Unfortunately this will take you "out of the moment," and ideally we want to be "in the moment" at all times, but this might help you get some control at first. If you can stay longer this way, the next step is to take whatever you were thinking about and change it to pleasing her. Focus on all parts of her body, not just the vagina. Overall just relax as much as possible. You want to be comfortable, but not so comfortable that you accidentally fatigue yourself (like getting ready to take a nap or something.) In case of an emergency, kegel like your life depends on it when you feel it coming on, and try to hold it back a few times. Sometimes after you do it a few times the urge gradually goes away and you're free to bang all night, but don't let this turn into a situation where you have problems ejaculating. If all else fails, try ejaculating about 3-5 hours beforehand and see how you do. Ideally we don't want to get in this habit (the moral obligation of "saving oneself"), but it may help you at first. Good luck.

[slanker]

Originally Posted by jadzeno69

You will go much longer if you focus more on pleasing her than focusing on trying not to cum. If it helps at first, try thinking of something to take your mind off of the sensation. Unfortunately this will take you "out of the moment," and ideally we want to be "in the moment" at all times, but this might help you get some control at first. If you can stay longer this way, the next step is to take whatever you were thinking about and change it to pleasing her. Focus on all parts of her body, not just the vagina. Overall just relax as much as possible. You want to be comfortable, but not so comfortable that you accidentally fatigue yourself (like getting ready to take a nap or something.) In case of an emergency, kegel like your life depends on it when you feel it coming on, and try to hold it back a few times. Sometimes after you do it a few times the urge gradually goes away and you're free to bang all night, but don't let this turn into a situation where you have problems ejaculating. If all else fails, try ejaculating about 3-5 hours beforehand and see how you do. Ideally we don't want to get in this habit (the moral obligation of "saving oneself"), but it may help you at first. Good luck.

[C.Phantasy]

Originally Posted by jadzeno69

You will go much longer if you focus more on pleasing her than focusing on trying not to cum. If it helps at first, try thinking of something to take your mind off of the sensation. Unfortunately this will take you "out of the moment," and ideally we want to be "in the moment" at all times, but this might help you get some control at first. If you can stay longer this way, the next step is to take whatever you were thinking about and change it to pleasing her. Focus on all parts of her body, not just the vagina. Overall just relax as much as possible. You want to be comfortable, but not so comfortable that you accidentally fatigue yourself (like getting ready to take a nap or something.) In case of an emergency, kegel like your life depends on it when you feel it coming on, and try to hold it back a few times. Sometimes after you do it a few times the urge gradually goes away and you're free to bang all night, but don't let this turn into a situation where you have problems ejaculating. If all else fails, try ejaculating about 3-5 hours beforehand and see how you do. Ideally we don't want to get in this habit (the moral obligation of "saving oneself"), but it may help you at first. Good luck.

I would guess that the best tip is to ejaculate 3 hours before sex,because when one ejaculates to their limit (which is for some 1-3 ejaculations in a row) the body starts its "anti erection/sensitivity" mechanism. This will make your sex last longer as your not as sensitive as usual.
If one combines this with the "Amor-Long love" condoms,one will be called the god of stamina

[Pegasus]

Or you could practise kegals and edging until you are multi orgasmic and can go as long as you like.

Does your girl want you to go longer?

[pensil]

yes she does wants me to go hard and long