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Originally Posted by Spicoli I have a really terrible case of PE. I was a virgin until last night. I had sex last night for the first time without a condom. But I only lasted about 5 seconds! Really. I have always had this problem while masturbation too. I would last no more than a minute.
I've been looking online for cures. But I can't figure out which are scams and which aren't. I heard that books are the best way to go. Any suggestions? |
There are several reasons why you didn't last long. The top one is psychological, anxiety or the thought of ejaculating was on your mind. You were probably nervous because you were thinking how you would compare to the others. Also when you are not wearing a condom there is more of a sensation and that will cause you not to last as long either. Condoms help with that.
Things are learned though, and since you trained your penis to last only a minute during masturbation you need to re-educate your penis. It's going to take time, but edging and kegels will help you learn. Also finding a rhythm will help you last longer. If masturbation you find you don't last long, then with a vagina I'm positive the time won't be better.
But as I have said, speaking from first-hand experience, you can change anything you want about yourself, just have to be dedicated.