Yea PH, sometimes when you are so used to servicing your self, it's hard to find pleasure in someone else doing it. After all, you know EXACTLY what you like. Sometimes women, as wonderful as they are, miss that one spot a little, or don't do it right, etc.
Also mhop18, I've been a faithful kegeler for a while now, and it has helped me with ejaculation control. However, after I delay it a few times, the urge usually goes away, and I experience something like what you are describing. After the urge disappears, I can go for hours and sometimes have trouble getting off, but I always do
. Usually I am able to work it up again with some good kegeling at the right times during intercourse. Also, in intercourse, there might be some angles/positions that feel better or are more pleasurable than others. There are some I know I have to save for the grand finale because they'll make me cum in minutes if we do them at the beginning. And a third thing is try to relax a little and focus more on the woman and pleasing her, and try to get into the whole experience more and maybe the rest will take care of itself. Usually that advice helps with premature ejaculation, but give it a shot.
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