Women touching her clit while having sex with her

[baybabe]

Is this a good thing or a bad thing? I always feel like I shouldn't touch my clit too much cause I feel like he would feel that he cant give me an orgasm unless I help with my fingers. Is that true? I know it seems to turn him on but then he starts fucking really hard and its not possible to touch it anymore.
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[RockofFox]

Its a good thing. Especially if the chick likes clitoral stimulation and penetration at the same time.
I would have thought that that is the norm to be honest.

[Pegasus]

Well it is not the norm in my experience but it is not unusual
I like girls doing what turns them on and find this a positive.
Umm perhaps some communication.

[remek]

It's a turn on for two reasons: 1) It shows that she knows what she likes/what turns her on, which shows she's confident and willing to take action.

2) We men are generally simple, we like to be pleased and to please. The more pleased you are, the more pleased we are. If you think he may feel he can't give you an orgasm, you may want to "guide" him on doing more of the rubbing, that way he feels he's doing more of the pleasing. Some men like to be shifting the gears, others like to sit back and watch

[vegetarian]

I don't mind, but when I notice she's doing it, I start doing it for her.

When I'm on top I try to get a rocking motion rather than thrusting, as the basic motion, to stimulate her clitoris. If you're a girl you can try putting a pillow under your pelvis to encourage clitoral stimulation when the man's on top.

By leaning to the right or left of her torso, I can rest my weight partially on my girl and partially on the bed (or floor, or kitchen table etc); this removes the necessity of the pillow for elevating the pelvis.

It's all about the clitoris!

[Pegasus]

Keen you are off thread.

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by vegetarian

I don't mind, but when I notice she's doing it, I start doing it for her.

When I'm on top I try to get a rocking motion rather than thrusting, as the basic motion, to stimulate her clitoris. If you're a girl you can try putting a pillow under your pelvis to encourage clitoral stimulation when the man's on top.

By leaning to the right or left of her torso, I can rest my weight partially on my girl and partially on the bed (or floor, or kitchen table etc); this removes the necessity of the pillow for elevating the pelvis.

It's all about the clitoris!

Hmm sounds like you've studied hard very cool.
Thanks for the info guys! When I was married, my ex would not like me to touch myself because he felt like he wasnt turning me on. Its just that some angles need a little extra sumthin sumthin ya know

[kingpole]

Great idea vegetarian, the rocking motion. The rocking motion may help guys last longer than just the old in and out.

Now if you guys can stimulate a "G" spot orgsm while your woman i touching her clit then that will send her into orgasm heaven i would think. I need to try this sometime.

[Radiohead]

baybabe,

You can touch your clit all you want

[jayhawk11]

Originally Posted by baybabe

Is this a good thing or a bad thing? I always feel like I shouldn't touch my clit too much cause I feel like he would feel that he cant give me an orgasm unless I help with my fingers. Is that true? I know it seems to turn him on but then he starts fucking really hard and its not possible to touch it anymore.
Please give all your opinions on this topic. Turn on OR Turn off? Why? Details

It's definately good thing. It tells me that she wants to cum and that she's actually willing to do something to get herself there if I can't. Some women can just lay there all night and take it like plastic fuckdolls, others are inclined to take the reigns every once in a while and make it a great experience for themselves too. You should never feel like you shouldn't touch yourself when having intercouse because it's totally natural, and to most guys, it's a huge turn on. Like vegetarian said, "It's all about the clitoris!"