[fun4me2_yk]

Ok, so I started on monday, 13 Sept. My reasons are simple. My wife says she's happy but I'm not. I have a few problems that bother me. First, I finish WAAAAAY to fast, doing kegels for that and thinking about trying this edging thing. Secondly, my penis is about 1 inch flaccid. when hard only about 5 and a half. I will take good measurements soon. My wife has had some lovers that are as big as 8" and way bigger around than me. No idea what my thickness is but its like an inch and a half across. I know I supposedly ring my wifes bell but honestly, I've lived with this my whole life, This website and the information in it gives me real tangible hope and I truly hope that its not all bull. I'm doing the basic beginner program in the beginners guide right now, exactly as written with the addition of 10 minutes of V-Jelqs for some girth. I'd like any and all suggestions you guys might have. And please....tell me the hope is real....please. I am so freakin tired of being the smallest guy in the locker room or losing my erection during sex because I start thinking my wife looks a little bored. I truly feel like a pathetic loser, I'm a good husband a great dad and a joke in bed. I've learned to compensate for this by concentrating on the foreplay like oral or finger stimulation but just once in my life I want to be able to undo my pants and see my wifes eyes go wide. As it is sex has been very infrequent and my wifes is starting to doubt that I'm attracted to her when in fact I live in constant lust of her but I'm so damned embarrassed about myself that I can't get past it to be in the mood. I know this will be slow, I know that there's every chance I won't grow at all, but I hope.......

I think the messages on here that really bother me are the ones by guys who start at 7" and stuff like that. Or the fact that all the videos feature examples of the excercises by guys with like 12" hammers. Anyway, its nice to know the big boys worry too. But even an extra inch would change my world. Wish me luck, give me any suggestions, and for gods sake, tell me I'm not going to have to get someone else to please my wife like a real man. And yes, I'm THAT desparate for something here.

fun4me2_yk

[buschite]

Hey fun4me2_yk I just started the beginners program on Labor day weekend or Sept 7th I have the same concerns as you and it sounds like we are about the same size. I am about 5 BPEL and 4.5 EG. I took a different approach I told my wife how I feel and what I am planning on doing because she gives me that boring look during sex like are you done yet?? She seemed to respond to me being open about it. Maybe we could compare progress in a few weeks and see if its working or not??

[Amazing]

Welcome to the gym fun4me_yk.

I'm not sure if you're just venting some frustration or you're actually a really negative person but your mindset sounds pretty self distructive. Learn to love yourself and start enjoying life. You're not hung like a pornstar but you definitely dont have a micro penis. You're average at the very least.

That being said, there is hope. PE is very much real but it takes knowledge, dedication and hardwork. I would refrain from adding that 10 mins of extra V-Jelqs. The beginner program is already pretty intense. Last thing you need is to overwork your penis at the start and get injured.

Good luck

[fun4me2_yk]

Buschite, sounds good, pleasure to meet you. Let me know how you're doing.

Amazing, not generally a negative person, just had a bad night last night when I lost it during sex with wife. Very embarrassing and discouraging. I'm finding it very hard to stay positive right now and I feel like a failure. Thanks for the advice on the v-jelqs, dropped them. will do the program as written then until its time to add more. As for the micro penis, I guess I'm average but I'm on the low side of that. Certainly don't seem to be doing it for my wife lately.

[JonPop]

Hey man, I started at 4 3/4". There is hope for you. BUT, you will have to dedicate yourself to a structured routine and do the work. You will have to do the exercises when you don't feel like doing them, you will have to MAKE the time. But if you are serious and are willing to put forth the effort, you too can have a huge cock. Mine is now over 8". Good luck and keep us informed. We are here to offer advice, support and encouragement. Good luck.

[fun4me2_yk]

Thanks JP, I appreciate that alot.

[JonPop]

You're welcome. Have you told the wife that you are going to start the exercises?

[fun4me2_yk]

another reason to be embarrassed in front of my wife? Where do I sign up? lol.... I think I'll just do this for myself right now. Telling her would just reinforce the fact that I really don't feel like much of a man at present.

[knight68]

Hi fun4me,
I have almost the same problem as you, look at my profile for measurements.
Yes, it works, it'not bullshit, and I have a PhD in Engineering, I know how to take measurements.... I was skeptisch as well reading the posts, but now I'm doing my exercises since the 26th of August, and the results are visible.
Yes, it's hard work, requires dedication and MOTIVATION. If you do it for your wife, don't start: you will get frustrated and stop very soon. Do it for yourself and think positive, keep going for the first three months and results will give you more energy.
Yes it takes time, and does not work if you skip days of exercises, you must be consistent. Consider that you could get 1 inch in 1 year (less time if you are lucky), and visualize yourself in 2 years 2" longer and 1,5" bigger, that's what I am doing. Is it worth? You bet! I am still striving to get my first half inch, but gains are permanent.

Start with the basic routine for the first couple of months (I am using 2 days on-1 off), stay well hydrated during the day, quit smoking and too much drinking, cut fat intake (in case you are overweight).
Someting that does help me are JAI stretches, check them out and use them during the day everytime you go to the toilet, it will improve immediately (and immediately in PE means a couple of months) the way you look in your flaccid state.

Good luck for your (better our, since I am a beginner as well...) results!

[Learningtolive]

I do understand your concerns and you must feel like an uncapacitated man, just like I do. One thing is true. PE does work. I see changes since I started doing it, but unfortunately had an injury 2 days back from stretching too hard and being tired of physical gym workout. I'm on a break right now until It heals. I can't wait to get back to it and see more gains. Don't rush it. I probably rushed a bit in the stretches and got a bruise ( a vein collapsed). With decent rest, work and staying positively minded, you'll accomplish your goals and feel like a better man.
Good luck