the 1st time I've refused sex to my girlfriend

[MrBigDick]

Ok so, thats what really happened:

I met her parents who are very religious people, they still think shes a virgin lol.. I found her father is a very nice guy, and I know he would be really pissed if he found out I'm having sex with his doughter under their own roof. Somehow this turned me off.

secondly, I was just lying in the bed later at night when she appeared all naked and then started to take my trousers off and at this moment I wasn't coughing at all. She was giving me oral sex and everything was normal despite the fact I was a bit uncofortable with the parents thing. A few minutes later she told me about her period. In sequence, neighbors turn the music on(and she complained about it to me). To finish, I began to cough out really hard. (cough gets much worse at night). Then I took a cup of tea and we fall asleep .

I seriously wouldn't worry about it. Sometimes you have an "off" night where things just don't go quite right. It happens.

I can understand the sex thing in the parents house. If my daughter brought a guy over to my house and went at it under my roof, I'd be pretty damn pissed off too.

[NP97]

Just because you're a guy doesn't mean you have to be in the mood ALL the time.

[Art]

No no, honestly I'm not worried at all. I'm not insecure and stuff like that. I just wanted to share the story cus its funny. And i thought it would be cool if other people share their stories too just becose its funny.
Maybe I didn't expressed myself very well.

[NP97]

I had one.
Not funny, but I was just plain tired. Not much sleep, working on the lawn all day. ALL DAY.
My girlfriend at the time was super horny and kept biting me, I just wanted to sleep.
So I go down on her, make her cum once or twice and she starts saying, "I want that cock in me" and "Fuck me now!".
Still no boner. She sucks my cock hard while I get the condom out and ready to go.
I put it on, start fucking, and go limp. And again. Tried again. Then one more time. Gave up after that.

[mrmark]

Ive been there and done it although only once.
I work for myself so i am working mostly 7 days a week in the horticulture business and that coupled with high temperatures at the time made my hayfever unbearable i take tablets but if the pollen levels are to high they have no effect on me and i felt completly drained for about 3 days.Anyway we get into bed and i could only get about 50% hard but she could see how tired i was and took it well,but i never though the day would come when i was with a smoking hot girl naked and i could not perform.I was like what iam i thinking i should banging her senseless!.Normally just thinking about sex makes me start getting hard,thankfully it has never happened since.

[surv376]

I've turned down sex a lot when I was simply too tired.

[Mcfly]

yeah I've done that a few times. I mean, sometimes you're just not in the mood. Plus the girl I was rejecting I was trying to stop seeing so it wasn't too hard...

[funflyer]

Anyone that I let give me oral has earned the right to at least ride me cowboy style. Sick or not. If I'm too sick for sex I'm too sick to enjoy a blow job. That said I have been pretty sick in the past and a orgasm has always made me feel better.

Besides day 1 of her period she could have played nurse and given you a sponge bath afterwards!

[The MaXX]

Dude I cannot even begin to count how many times I have had to turn my girlfriend down for sex. LOL I know it feels really weird the first time but its normal. Especially when your gf wants it minimum 2 times if not 3 a day like it is for me. Common response to that is how long have you 2 been together. A: 2 years. i dunno I guess I'm lucky she has the sex drive of a 16 year old boy but its goddamn demanding. I'M ONLY 1 MAN DAMMIT!!!!!

[4Samson]

I've turned down sex a lot when I was simply too tired.

Me too, not alot alot but once in awhile. I put alot of effort into it for her.. that and my financee seems to want it everytime we are alone for a bit. If your getting it all the time I see no reason to sacrific quality just for more quantity.