Is my shaft hair causing my girl irritation?

[EndtheVC]

My girlfriend has been complaining of pain during sex, usually after a few minutes of sex she says that it hurts when I go in-and-out.<br>At first I figured this might be normal because she was a virgin and it could take some time to get used to sex, but now I'm thinking that the hair on my shaft could be causing the problem.<br><br>She has very sensitive skin on her whole body. &nbsp;If you scratch her anywhere, the skin rises temporarily. &nbsp;So this may be another indicator that I'm actually causing some irritation down there.<br><br>I'm pretty sure this is the problem but wanted to hear PEGym's insight into the matter. &nbsp;If this is the case, then I'll try shaving more regularly, and if that doesnt suffice (ie. the stubble still bothers her), then i'll probably go for laser treatment.<br><br>Thanks guys, girls.

[Unit]

Try a little lubrication. I think that you'll find that a little K Y jelly Will do wonders.

[Toadstool]

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but when I do, I post them twice.

[Charlie123]

Hey VC

I've experienced a similar problem to you. My girlfriend couldn't stand sex with me for more than 4-5 minutes due to the soreness. We thought something was wrong with her, although several docs couldn't find any issues.

My penis isn't big (6" on a good day), but is very hairy, from the base to halfway up the shaft.

We tried various lubricants, different positions, more foreplay, and none of it made a difference.

I only considered that my hair could be the issue around a week ago. So, I put on a condom to make the surface smoother. She felt no pain whatsoever! She actually outdid me, after around 30 minutes I was exhausted, and she expected me to carry on!

I didn't like the idea of using condoms at first, but the pain was putting my girlfriend off sex, and it was starting to put a strain on our relationship. All in all, worth it!

[TehDBare]

Lack of lubrication could be a source, but your guess of it being shaft hair is most definitely possible. I have the same issue, my girl loves the extra stimulation and as much as I want to wax or shave it off for my own comfort I leave it for her pleasure. In your case get rid of it for her sensitive skin. Don't shave though, the stubble will make her climb the walls, look into wax, it'll Hirt like hell the first time but you'll like the results much better than razor burn from shaving every day. And do NOT use any hair removal chemicals, you'll burn the skin of your penis in a heartbeat and spend weeks recovering.

[kelthuzad1986]

It seems like you're posting from behind a proxy. I suspect this because I to was doing that for awhile and paragraph spacing would not stay normally. To space paragraphs, you need to type <br> but put a slash after the r, and use two of them.

[longrodten]

Hey VC

I've experienced a similar problem to you. My girlfriend couldn't stand sex with me for more than 4-5 minutes due to the soreness. We thought something was wrong with her, although several docs couldn't find any issues.

My penis isn't big (6" on a good day), but is very hairy, from the base to halfway up the shaft.

We tried various lubricants, different positions, more foreplay, and none of it made a difference.

I only considered that my hair could be the issue around a week ago. So, I put on a condom to make the surface smoother. She felt no pain whatsoever! She actually outdid me, after around 30 minutes I was exhausted, and she expected me to carry on!

I didn't like the idea of using condoms at first, but the pain was putting my girlfriend off sex, and it was starting to put a strain on our relationship. All in all, worth it!

Get it lasered.

[MrsLooking4more]

Yes, hair in the shaft makes micro vaginal cuts that are very painful,they hurt like internal paper cuts. So please groom the shaft and trim the groin, it will be greatly appreciate and give you longer playtime. Do you really want her to equate pain to being with you intimately? Heck no. It takes a few seconds with a beard trimmer, so trim it.

[Bnip]

It's 2013... Shave it

[LilNudeDude]

Yes, even pubic hair rubbing on the outside can cause discomfort.

I have been completely shaven for years. I used to think it looked rather infantile. But now, if I let the hair grow out, it looks unkempt and "caveman-ish".

I have received more than one, "Thank you!" from male and female alike. Neat and clean. It adds a more positive look for more than one activity.

Think of it this way. You wouldn't eat off a dirty dinner plate would you?

Try it, you might like it!