How to put a final end to being compared by size...shock and awe...

[imac]

all that would prove to the female is that you are insecure and immature. You guys really need to get over your need to punish your partners for having been with bigger. Females tend to be very open and sometimes over share, just because she shared with you her past sexual experiences doesn't mean she was doing it to hurt you or rubbing it in your face. It means she trusted you and trusted that you would be man enough to not make issue. Females like to connect and part of the connecting is through intimacy, part of intimacy is sharing history and experiences..just because she might express fond memories of a certain lover does not mean they were the best or better than you.you hear bigger and you assume better. Its so sad when egos lead the relationship instead of heart. Think more with your heart and less with your ego.

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[4Samson]

All that would prove to the female is that you are insecure and immature. You guys really need to get over your need to punish your partners for having been with bigger. Females tend to be very open and sometimes over share, just because she shared with you her past sexual experiences doesn't mean she was doing it to hurt you or rubbing it in your face. it means she trusted you and trusted that you would be man enough to not make issue. Females like to connect and part of the connecting is through intimacy, part of intimacy is sharing history and experiences..Just because she might express fond memories of a certain lover does not mean they were the best or better than you.You hear bigger and you assume better. Its so sad when egos lead the relationship instead of heart. Think more with your heart and less with your ego.

LOL so a girl can talk about their big cock experiences because they "tend to be very open and sometimes over share" and "Females like to connect and part of the connecting is through intimacy, part of intimacy is sharing history and experiences" but a guy cant mention a tight pussy? Fuck double standards, it is girls who need to get over themselves. Having a pussy is not an excuse to not have to think before you open your mouth. I've never had a partner do that to me but if they did they would be a hypocritical bitch if they thought talking about big cocks is okay but I'm an asshole if I mention a tight pussy. Personally, I dont think either conversation is at all necessary but honestly fuck that double standard we are girls so we are different shit.

[TINKERBELL]

LOL so a girl can talk about their big cock experiences because they "tend to be very open and sometimes over share" and "Females like to connect and part of the connecting is through intimacy, part of intimacy is sharing history and experiences" but a guy cant mention a tight pussy? Fuck double standards, it is girls who need to get over themselves. Having a pussy is not an excuse to not have to think before you open your mouth. I've never had a partner do that to me but if they did they would be a hypocritical bitch if they thought talking about big cocks is okay but I'm an asshole if I mention a tight pussy. Personally, I dont think either conversation is at all necessary but honestly fuck that double standard we are girls so we are different shit.

I have had partners and potential partners go on about previous tight pussy they have experienced or the time they made a girl squirt and i am always left asking and wondering "why the fuck are you telling me this? are you that insecure that you have to brag to me about it? or are you just not thinking? or are you that comfortable with me that you forget i am not a dude? or are you doing a sales pitch?or are you just too honest?"

Some men do connect the same way, never said they don't connect through intimacy that way, i was discussing the female side of things.
I don't think its right to discuss intimate details of another persons sexual anatomy regardless of sex. .so no its not ok to go on about another chicks tight pussy, loose pussy or a previous partners big dick or little dick and how the sex was. But own it if you are the one who opened the can of worms asking the person about their past experiences or what they like or what gets them off. If you ask the question you do not have the right to use it as a weapon against the person you are suppose to care about. And Tit for Tat is fucking pathetic.

[BigO]

I have had partners and potential partners go on about previous tight pussy they have experienced or the time they made a girl squirt and i am always left asking and wondering "why the fuck are you telling me this? are you that insecure that you have to brag to me about it? or are you just not thinking? or are you that comfortable with me that you forget i am not a dude? or are you doing a sales pitch?or are you just too honest?"

Some men do connect the same way, never said they don't connect through intimacy that way, i was discussing the female side of things.
I don't think its right to discuss intimate details of another persons sexual anatomy regardless of sex. .so no its not ok to go on about another chicks tight pussy, loose pussy or a previous partners big dick or little dick and how the sex was. But own it if you are the one who opened the can of worms asking the person about their past experiences or what they like or what gets them off. If you ask the question you do not have the right to use it as a weapon against the person you are suppose to care about. And Tit for Tat is fucking pathetic.

Agreed 100 %. No good reason for men or women to bring up past sex with past partners, it never does anything good.

[kelthuzad1986]

You know, there is this ancient piece of advice that says wait until marriage to have sex. It would solve a lot of these problems.

[NP97]

Or just ignore it...
My girlfriend and I talk about sex with old partners often. No issues at all.
She dated someone for almost 4 years. He made her squirt a few times, I haven't. She says sex with me is better than with him, I believe her. Who gives two shits about a donkey cock if the sex is great?

[Raider]

I could see this in a comedy lol. I don't know if I would ever use this unless I was purposely trying to bring a girl down, and even if I was I would probably go with a different insult of some sort but then again I would probably never do that hahaha.

But this did make me laugh so thanks for that but I don't think it's really necessary to use. If a girl can't stop talking about her ex's huge wangs then just tell her to stop or she can go back to one of them. Muah

[IHaveAHugeNick]

Any person worth being with would never purposefully hurt the other. If she's talking about exes with huge ones, ask her if she realizes how it makes you feel. You'll know she's worth staying with by her next words and actions.

By purposely hurting her back, all you show her is that you're not worth keeping. She may have hurt you inadvertently, but you did it out of spite. Sure, if she's being a bitch, then let loose. But my own way of dealing with it would be to do what I first posted. Chances are, she didn't realize the effect and will feel really bad. Keeper. If she doesn't care or doesn't care enough to understand, then she's not even worth hurting back. Just dump her.

And for guys that ask their girlfriend about previous partners and specifically penis sizes, you get what you asked for. If you really wan to know, then suck it up and listen to how great that huge one made her feel, because you brought it up.

[Trotsky slaying thedragon]

"how it makes you feel"

That's sensitive talk; that'll end the relationship fast. Men deal with things internally or artistically.

[IHaveAHugeNick]

"how it makes you feel"

That's sensitive talk; that'll end the relationship fast. Men deal with things internally or artistically.

Been with my wife almost 20 years and we have 2 great kids.

I guess it depends on how shallow of a relationship you're looking for.