How to put a final end to being compared by size: have a courier deliver to her place of employment a very long Kielbasa with a card attached that reads "Insert this until it makes contact with your spleen, enjoy, and have a nice life. . . ."
Is that "final" enough?
There are a lot of women out there, all shapes, sizes with different tastes: don't get wrapped around the axle with immature women or size queens. Now, if YOU are bringing up the subject, stop it! I've been with a lot of women, and very few were about size.
This is quite the thread lol. Yes, if your girlfriend upsets you you should automatically do your best to upset her back, that will teach her! Great advice for any guy really wanting to take their relationship to the next level!
But seriously, if I didn't know any better I'd think we were supposed to read the original thread in a sarcastic tone.
If my partner ever tries to put me down and make me feel miserable by (in)directly showing me my inferiority to one of her former partners, it would be a sign for me to break up with her by using WELCOME to iDUMP4U*|*.
Then I'd proceed to iDUMP4u - YouTube and enjoy the show.
Seriously, great stuff!
Any person worth being with would never purposefully hurt the other. If she's talking about exes with huge ones, ask her if she realizes how it makes you feel. You'll know she's worth staying with by her next words and actions.
By purposely hurting her back, all you show her is that you're not worth keeping. She may have hurt you inadvertently, but you did it out of spite. Sure, if she's being a bitch, then let loose. But my own way of dealing with it would be to do what I first posted. Chances are, she didn't realize the effect and will feel really bad. Keeper. If she doesn't care or doesn't care enough to understand, then she's not even worth hurting back. Just dump her.
And for guys that ask their girlfriend about previous partners and specifically penis sizes, you get what you asked for. If you really wan to know, then suck it up and listen to how great that huge one made her feel, because you brought it up.
I remember I told my partner once that the way she talks about guys really made me feel bad. Not their penises but how tall and 'hot' they are/were. You don't have to have sex with someone to be attracted to them and it always made me feel unattractive. I was driving and we were talking on the phone but I remember the exact stretch of highway I was on, when I said it to her plainly, and her reaction was one of disbelief at first. She couldn't believe something she thought so trivial was damaging me, little by little. Then she got mad at me for not telling her sooner, LMAO! I'd dropped hints here and there... but actually saying it outright was the only to get it across.
She didn't realize that she was hurting me, inadvertently and she wouldn't have known if I didn't tell her. It didn't stop her from doing it from time to time because it was just something she never had to censor before, but she did try to stop it.
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Been with my wife almost 20 years and we have 2 great kids.
I guess it depends on how shallow of a relationship you're looking for.
You could be naturally alpha and sensitive could mean something productive for you. You have a girthy cock so I imagine that's enough for her to stay around.
Also, age. Women have rejected monogamy and nuclear family in 21st century for polyamory so being sensitive about your personal issues will have little to no effect (besides negative) on bedding women.