Yes, that stuff happens, almost everything happens somewhere, but to call someone on this forums something like that is definitely uncalled for. If I were you, I would apologize swiftly. Tink is a very nice person and has helped me greatly and I believe her when she says who she is.
This is true, Tink helps so many here and to spew that crap about her or any other female, or member of these forums will get you a swift kick through the out door.
Saying no offense doesn't make it any less offensive
and i guess i am the 1% in your crap view of females.
The mom is probably to blame in general and my mom does wonder why I do not like talking to her.... It's complicated. Dominant mom weak dad.. I still have some issues because of this. but in the end it's a damn good thing I had the mother son bond with my grandma she did pass away 7 years ago. I think because of this she(my actual mom) made it her mission to wreak my life, by trying to make me homosexual.
Last edited by Thick_Unit; 06-22-2012 at 09:16 PM.
I smashed my car into a tree from finding out the girl i was seeing for 2 years, lived with was sleeping with her boss who was 20 years older than us... life sucks, and women are whores... fuck them and enjoy it. thats all you can do
We will not say stuff like this again will we!! And I'M NOT KIDDING!
OK, dude, I'm really sorry this happened to you but NO WOMAN is worth you having suicidal thoughts. You're going to give her THAT much power over you? If she was cheating on you then she obviously wasn't worth much to begin with NOR did she have respect for or truly care for you as well.
Also to the OP, one cheat does not mean she has cheated before. But it does mean that she is so lost, so selfish that she could not think as the women you had hoped she was. The important thing is to release this action of HERS from your life. Choose the right person to honor (be with etc..). If they are not like you move on. Dont force something, no give me this I'll do that, you cant change people nor should you change. Its the hardest thing to not want more or better for someone you have deep feelings for but bottom line is, they want to be the person they want to be. Let them be that person, just not with thee (I had to use the thee because it rhymed)
Men are just as inclined to cheating as women. It isn't fair to say that ALL women are like that just because you wouldn't cheat...
The best thing to do right now is to move on. If she cheated on you, she obviously wasn't the right person for you. I'm sorry it ended the way it did but one day you will find the right person who wouldn't dare cheat on you. Good luck.
I will admit I could go for some strait up sex with any girl anytime anywhere I am always ready and I barely trust myself. Thats why I avoid those situations completely. My wife cheated on me once and I know it wasnt to hurt me, it wasnt because I have a small dick and it wasnt because she didnt love me. She loves sex just as much as I do and she let herself get into the wrong situation. It really really hurt me but I know it coulda been the other way around just as easy. I love my wife and Im glad we made it through it and I feel as though our bond is stronger for it. For me anyway once I made it through that nothing else mattered there were no more secrets or insecurities nothing. I really felt like I could open up about ANYTHING and so did she and we did. We are so close now and I love it.
You know what? I don't think you should be talking about your gf cheating on this site, and I will tell you why.
First off, this is an issue you should be bring up with her and finding out if it something with your relationship or something habitual with her because this is a serious matter between you two and other that are in your immediate circle if need be. You don't know most of the people on this site nor do I to discuss certain issues.
Secondly, your making your personal life an open book for all to read and her as well. Forgive me for saying this but it really shows a lack of character on your part regardless of what she may or may not have done.
Maybe you don't see it this way but there are perhaps 10,000 or more individuals registered on this site. Now ask yourself this, is this topic about your cheating girlfriend (which does you some injustice) something you want 10k persons or more to know? Also, didn't your immediate circle tell you the same as most others here already? Do you really need that many affirmatives?