penis length and fat girls

[J-Smooth32]

Man i hope so lol i just startedy exersizes today. Do they really work if you stay on it?

[BTBrian]

Sure do

[J-Smooth32]

I do 10 min warm up, 6 min stretch, and 10 min jelq, this a good routine or i need to bump up the mins ot just change what im doing

[MrBigDick]

If that's what he meant, then good for him. I find the opposite to be the case. Her weight is very restrictive when it comes to sex. We're basically limited to three positions: missionary (where it's difficult for me to comfortably get fully inside her), cowgirl (which can be uncomfortable for me) and doggy style. I'd love to be able to do more, like 69 or fucking her while I'm standing up and she has her legs wrapped around me. Unfortunately, that's just impossible.

She's unhappy with her weight and it really gets her down. She regularly declares that she's going on a diet but typically only manages three or four days of healthier eating and one gym visit before falling back into her usual ways. It genuinely depresses me. I've tried everything I can to be supportive. Anyway, I don't want to hijack this thread. I've made a thread about it before and while there were some very kind suggestions and advice, nothing seems to work.

Then sadly you'll have to decide if your love for her is strong enough to ride this out. If she isn't willing to change and likes who and what she is, you'll have a decision to make.

[Midnight Man]

Then sadly you'll have to decide if your love for her is strong enough to ride this out. If she isn't willing to change and likes who and what she is, you'll have a decision to make.

That's the problem. She's doesn't like who and what she is. I can see how much it upsets her and she often makes comments about how she's "huge" and "disgusting." I know she's looking for reassurance but there's only so much my words can help.

She's overweight to the extent that it messes up her hormone levels and she doesn't have periods. She has to buy clothes that are UK size 28/30 (apparently that's US size 26/28). That's incredibly bad for her health and it's dangerous. I may sound like I'm being dramatic but it scares me that she'll die young. We're only in our mid-20s but I love her and want us to spend the rest of our lives together. If things don't change, I can see things like heart disease and Type 2 diabetes being realistic possibilities.

She suffers from depression. While her weight isn't the cause of it (or at least, it's not the only cause), I have no doubt that it makes her depression far, far worse. She's stuck in a vicious cycle: she eats because she's depressed and she's depressed because she eats. I don't know how to help her.

[BigO]

That's the problem. She's doesn't like who and what she is. I can see how much it upsets her and she often makes comments about how she's "huge" and "disgusting." I know she's looking for reassurance but there's only so much my words can help.

She's overweight to the extent that it messes up her hormone levels and she doesn't have periods. She has to buy clothes that are UK size 28/30 (apparently that's US size 26/28). That's incredibly bad for her health and it's dangerous. I may sound like I'm being dramatic but it scares me that she'll die young. We're only in our mid-20s but I love her and want us to spend the rest of our lives together. If things don't change, I can see things like heart disease and Type 2 diabetes being realistic possibilities.

She suffers from depression. While her weight isn't the cause of it (or at least, it's not the only cause), I have no doubt that it makes her depression far, far worse. She's stuck in a vicious cycle: she eats because she's depressed and she's depressed because she eats. I don't know how to help her.

I havent read this whole thread so forgive me if I missed something, but maybe you should get gym memberships for the both of you and be her rock of consistancy. Go with her at least 3 times a week and really help her to stick it out. The most important thing about getting back in shape is making it a total life style change.

[going411by7]

If she's that upset about her weight and her personal health, and it DOES
sound like she has a genuine problem, there are so many avenues to
take to shed the pounds--Mr. Oz, OA (Overeaters Anonymous), etc.

You can only help her by being an example. Best of luck.

BTW, my Mrs. is overweight, and I LOVE doggy style with her.

[BigO]

Mine has a bit of extra as well and that ass makes a nice heart shape when bent over, its an awsome sight.

[going411by7]

Just the image gets my heart pounding and my dick bobbing!!

[Midnight Man]

I havent read this whole thread so forgive me if I missed something, but maybe you should get gym memberships for the both of you and be her rock of consistancy. Go with her at least 3 times a week and really help her to stick it out. The most important thing about getting back in shape is making it a total life style change.

BigO, we both have gym memberships (hell, I even pay for hers). I typically go to the gym at least three times a week and keep a really strict diet. I'm 6'0" and around 200lbs with an athletic build. I regularly suggest going to the gym together and doing different things, whether it's simply working out, swimming or a bit of boxing training. She's done them before and has enjoyed them. She'll agree to do it but when it actually comes round to going, she'll insist that she needs to do something else or she's too tired.

going411by7, I'll look into those, although I know she's looked at similar kinds of things online before. I don't know to what extent she's read them or tried to use them to help her.

Thanks to everyone who's offered advice. I really don't know if there's anything else I can do to help her. I've tried being more proactive, I've tried easing off and being there to support here when she comes to me. Maybe there's nothing I can do until she finds the inner strength to start the process on her own. Until then, she's going to continue gaining weight and the potential for greater health problems will worsen.