I definately think everyone should be themselves and be comfortable with who they are. Im not the biggest, strongest, cutest, smartest, richest most athletically gifted..... & I know I never will be. I dont try to be something im not and I am fairly comfortable with who I am and I have fun in life for the most part. I am a very happy person generally and maybe thats what attracts people to me? Not sure. I have never really payed much thought to this subject.