Men do you like this?

[islander]

1). When women wear flat sandles. The type that show most of her foot. No bling (fake stones) assuming she has nice feet and toes? Not flip flops.

2). Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color?

3). Pony tails

4). Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat"

6). Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do unless it comes up (fix certain things on a car, plumbing, AC, guy stuff)?

7). Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask?

8). Medical history that has no baring on current life ?

9). Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked. When asked on a need to know basis until such time you are a committed couple?

10). Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs?

I have so many questions. But basically how can a man expect or want to "know everything about you". Is that just a line or is he really hoping you start from your ancestors and move forward to current time.

I do have a history of being very close to the hip with info. I can talk with you for five hours and you will go away with nothing really personal. I'm a conversationalist not an upchucker lol

Thank you

[jdavid1990]

All i can say is bits at a time. An let a man fall for you first, make him interested before pelting him with info bullets.

[jdavid1990]

If you talked to me for 5 hours and there was no purpose i couldnt handle it..

[Padawan787]

1). When women wear flat sandles. The type that show most of her foot. No bling (fake stones) assuming she has nice feet and toes? Not flip flops. ​That is fine, but I feel that it can accentuate or draw attention to large feet, which I don't really like on a woman

2). Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color? Doesn't matter

3). Pony tails One pony tail is fine, pig tails (dual pony tails) are awful

4). Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder depends on the occasion, I realise that women use large bags everyday and small ones going out for practical reasons, it doesn't really matter

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat" I generally like paying, or at least paying half, but so long as it isn't expensive being bought something every now and again is ok. I do realise that this point of view is quite old-fashioned

6). Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do unless it comes up (fix certain things on a car, plumbing, AC, guy stuff) I don't really get the question

7). Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask? I obviously don't need to know her day by day schedule and wouldn't make an issue out of not knowing it, but I like to know if anything big or interesting is coming up, however in a healthy relationship this would presumably be mentioned in conversation at some point

8). Medical history that has no baring on current life? I presume it would come up in conversation at some point, but it depends on how long you have been together as over time you expect to know about your partner's past etc. but no, unless it was something really serious, it wouldn't bother me so long as it didn't look like it was "hidden"

9). Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked. When asked on a need to know basis until such time you are a committed couple? That is fine, up until you become a committed couple, but as a couple you do expect to get to know the family etc.

10). Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs? Only paying for herself? that is fine, so long as you don't live together, then a contribution to bills etc. might be expected (depends on the financial situations of those in the couple of course)

I have so many questions. But basically how can a man expect or want to "know everything about you". Is that just a line or is he really hoping you start from your ancestors and move forward to current time.

I do have a history of being very close to the hip with info. I can talk with you for five hours and you will go away with nothing really personal. I'm a conversationalist not an upchucker lol

Thank you

answers in bold above

[BTBrian]

1). When women wear flat sandles. The type that show most of her foot. No bling (fake stones) assuming she has nice feet and toes? Not flip flops. Dont Care

2). Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color? Don't care

3). Pony tails Don't care

4). Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder Don't care about a big purse, over the shoulder phone holder might be weird I've never heard of that before

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat" Awesome!

6). Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do unless it comes up (fix certain things on a car, plumbing, AC, guy stuff)? Don't care

7). Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask? don't care

8). Medical history that has no baring on current life ? Don't care

9). Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked. When asked on a need to know basis until such time you are a committed couple? Don't care

10). Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs? Don't care

I have so many questions. But basically how can a man expect or want to "know everything about you". Is that just a line or is he really hoping you start from your ancestors and move forward to current time.

I do have a history of being very close to the hip with info. I can talk with you for five hours and you will go away with nothing really personal. I'm a conversationalist not an upchucker lol

Thank you

Answers in bold also! Hope I did this right, for everything that is don't care you should read: "Makes no bearing on how I will perceive the girl" if I like the girl then that won't affect how much I like her and if I dislike her it won't make me like or dislike her more

[Steve23]

Don't
Care

Answer in bold!



Edit: When I think of those sandles, pony tails and a phone holder I think of a tourist or real estate agent.
Edit no. 2: Especially if those sandles and/or phone holder is brown leather.

[islander]

Thank you guys! It's funny because so many worry about this or that but I think most men don't care. I'm not a girly girl type. No fake bling in my hair fake jewelry or studs on my clothes. Etc. I'm casual but feminine. Never white accessories. Never!

Steve can you adjust your font? I know for you to see it you need it large but most of us are ok with font 12 Plus that's bullshit. My red mouth avatar bothers you so how can none of that shit on my list bother you lmao. Don't reply I can't sleep as it is lol
Shoot almost all my stuff is brown or black leather. Wow you really RED me. I'm blushing RED.

To the second poster: what I mean is that you can have great convo without spilling your private thoughts or life. If I'm asked I'll answer it my way. I realize that can offend but I'm a warm person and most just accept I'm guarded in the beginning.

Paddy. I was raised with brothers. I can build a car, race a car, fix a lawn mower, etc I followed them every where and learned everything they did lol. I don't tell guys I know this stuff I just wait for the time when it may come up. I guess at my age now I find it a bit embarrassing lol

Most Latins don't like sandles. That's who I date. I still wear them

Purse question: YES there are iPhone little purse thingy's. Super cute on a long strap. Holds ur phone I'd etc. no fanny bag!!

[BTBrian]

Paddy. I was raised with brothers. I can build a car, race a car, fix a lawn mower, etc I followed them every where and learned everything they did lol. I don't tell guys I know this stuff I just wait for the time when it may come up. I guess at my age now I find it a bit embarrassing lol

I know some guys that would think that's weird because they don't know how to do shit themselves and they'd probably be intimidated by a girl that has more knowledge about that kind of thing than them, but where I'm from it is a huge plus if a girl can take care of her shit. Big plus!

[Steve23]

Size matters when it comes to fonts.

[islander]

You are the King of the one liners!
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