What has your wife/gf said, that motivate you to continue PE

[ThicknessBlack]

Hey guys, I'm new here and have been reading some comments in the success forum and they have really got me motivated to PE. I was just thinking, it would be cool to have a single thread of statments or short stories of things the wifey or girlfriend have said to motivate you to continue PE'ing.

[ExS]

I've been at this since December 2010, so a bit over a year. And reading other's threads like this were definitely inspiring to me, so hopefully I can add a bit.

My wife has become kind of a bulge-junkie lately, and I constantly catch her checking it out. About six months ago, she started calling me "Mr. Big" which she had called me before. And just a while back, she said "maybe I need to call you Mr. Bulge instead of Mr. Big". Very inspiring, at least to me.

Also, while having sex recently we started doing it doggy-style and she had to switch positions, saying "that's never happened before, but something was a bit uncomfortable that time." Again, inspiring to me but an indicator that I need to work on my technique a bit as I grow. Maybe I'm hitting places I haven't hit before.

I'm a closet PE-er and she has never asked the "What's going on down there?" question, but she has seemed to become a bit more sexual over the course of the last year. It could partly be attributable to the growth (from 6.25x5.75 BPELxEG to nearly 7x6) but I think it may be more due to my increased confidence (so, indirectly due to the growth).

Either way, all is fun. I can't wait to hopefully get the direct "are you bigger?" type of question, at which point I'll tell her.

[thenewdude]

She has done nothing but say it is bigger but still wonders why I even need to do it while starting to understand that my PE has really nothing to do with insecurity but just want.

[ThicknessBlack]

Great post so far guys...thanks! I'm hoping that within the next two weeks or so, I'll have my on motivational post to make.

[Steve23]

Maybe next 2-6 months, PE is a long process, don't expect fast gains(weeks) or you will be discouraged and give up.

[Cya at 8]

Mine has been more negative than positive. She has made comments like "'Brad Pitt' isn't much to look at either" and other not so well taken comments. I don't think she means to say such things that bother me. Some of it is me taking it wrong and others may be that likes them really big. Either way, it does motivate me quite a bit. I believe my woman is a closet size queen. I mean my size is more than 'not much to look at' but whatever.

[ColtAR-15]

My wife said " It's not that small" and that theres less friction when she's really slippery.

[alan020]

"holy sh*t that thing is huge"

[ColtAR-15]

"holy sh*t that thing is huge"

Must be nice.

[Jayj]

Mine has been more negative than positive. She has made comments like "'Brad Pitt' isn't much to look at either" and other not so well taken comments. I don't think she means to say such things that bother me. Some of it is me taking it wrong and others may be that likes them really big. Either way, it does motivate me quite a bit. I believe my woman is a closet size queen. I mean my size is more than 'not much to look at' but whatever.

You're 8.25 BPEL and she says that your thing is "not much to look at"?? Really? Well that's kinda depressing... :/

My last girlfriend used to say (during sex):
"You're huuuuge!!! Stop moving for a moment... it's too much. And stop pulsing!"

Ahah that made me laugh.

She also commented while we were in the bath together (I had a semi). She said (while poking it):
"you're really big you know".

And that's what you call ego boost