Yes I thought that thread title would get your attention!
Some background info before we'll get to the banging part:
Ok, I started PE the end of January 2012, kinda sceptic but willing to try.
I am 40, white and my wife is black, thick and sexy. We have 3 kids. After 12 years I find her more attractive
than ever, she always looks nice, likes to change her hair styles etc. I love her.
I look nice too, 6'-8" tall, slightly underweight. But feel the effects of getting older, stress of daily life and being married. (12 yrs)
My dick is 7.4 bpel and was able to slide in a toilet tissue roll if I really pushed it in hard. (yes the good old tissue roll test)
Anyway, couple of years ago we had the Who Did You Date Before We Met- discussion,
which was started by her, if I recall correctly, because 'We Needed to Talk More'.
I told her I used to mess around with mostly asian girls.
She told me she used to date some black guys before me, and that one had a huge dick,
(she showed me with her fingers, about 9") and another one had a really small one.
(she showed me with her fingers, it was about 4 inches). He couldnt do nothing for her she said
she would never stick with a guy with a tiny dick. This always stuck to me and
I always wondered if she really liked bigger dicks or what.
But I had never asked her flat out what about me with my 7 point something inches.
She had never said wow your dick is big or something to me ever. She does however always tell me how
she loves my big balls. But who cares about testicles! I want to hear if my cock is big!
Like I said I used to date Asian girls a lot and they always liked the size, a thai girl I dated in the 90's
once gave me the 'wow it so big'. Good times. I guess its a male insecurity thing,
because I see this is a re-occuring theme in the stories in this Success Forum (my favourite forum btw).
One time my wife played with a fat cucumber for me, and after a while, was enjoying it way too much for a girl
that said "having a huge cock isnt that important for her".. that sentence really makes a man hard right.?.
We always have good sex I thought, but I sometimes cum way too soon. (this started happening a lot
the last years . stress I think) I kinda worked around it by making her cum hard by licking her etc.
before I fucked her. I love going down on her, just the sight of her shiny black legs parted and
the pink of her pussy showing! So I used to do long forplay, usually making her come hard with
my tongue and fingers, followed by me fucking her and usually coming in about 3 minutes or sooner...
I just cant take it, she gets very wet and when she get to the 'yeah fuck me fuck me, fuck me harder' part
and I feel her long nails in my scrawny white butt I usually unload instantly.
So I got that going for me, which is nice..
Anway I thought she was ok with it, untill she told me last year that she would like to have sex
AND cum while I was actually fucking her. I never thought about that but it made me even more insecure.
It got so bad that when I was going down on her, orally, my mind started racing and getting side tracked,
thinking about the childrens school fee, my mortgage payment or not forgetting to buy pampers tomorrow,
real sexy stuff..
By the time she climaxed, and asked me to 'stick it in baby and fuck me hard" my manhood had already
shriveled and basically left the door. Very embarrassing.
It took some sucking on her part and a 'thats ok baby' to get the diesel going again..
Man, in our first years we used to do it 3 to 4 times a day, we used to do it in our lunch breaks, etc.
we work close to each other.. where did that blonde blue eyed fuck machine go?
So fast forward to last January 2012, I decided this needed to end now before it got worse.
You dont want to end up like your parents right.
So I did some online research and ended up here. I didnt post, just read a lot. My goals were:
1. to last langer (come on, 3 minutes... really?)
2. more girth
3. longer dick. I would like to hit the magical 8" just for kicks. Its only 0.6 inches more right?
4. all this needed to be done in absolute secrecy.
I started light, because well, 30-40 minute showers were getting kinda
suspicious or always interupted by toddlers that needed to pee!
("daddy?? what you doing in there?? open up I need to pee!!")
I decided to share all this here so I dont feel so stupid during my 'whatever I can do in a 20-30 min bath room jelq session'.
After a couple of months now its usually warming up, about 200 jelqs, holding it 3 secs, all directions, helicopter shakes. warming down.
I tried the V jelq but dont seem to get the hang of it.
Not to raise any suspicion I couldnt leave any rulers in the bath room so I measured some items in
the bathroom for size. My comb was 7 inches, a deodorant can was 7.5", the purple tooth brush
was 8" exactly. I know I wasnt supposed to measure till after 3 months but you know, I was kinda curious.
Right now I am close to the end of the deodorant can.
Right after a week or so I started to notice my flaccid hang looks incredible, huge veins.
(see my pics:
-starting pictures January 2012
-comparison pics September 2012
-pictures November 2021
-pictures January 2013)
Even the next day when I took a piss at the office. Just the veins alone made my cock look like an
enormous chunk of insatiable fuck meat. Awesome. In the first weeks it was hard not to end
up masturbating every day with my new swollen veiny love schlong. It felt so good in my hand.
Another thing I noticed after a month or so: waking up with a huge mega boner. This hadnt happened in
a long time either. If it wasnt for the baby sleeping in between us almost every morning,
I would have mounted her for the last couple of weeks in the morning like we used to do!
Another thing, girth did increase when I measured last week, so thats say 2 months after I started,
because the tissue roll can no longer fit over my dick. This is with a regular boner, my head is huge
and the shaft is thicker too. This is not after jelqing. After jelqing its even more evident there's no way
it would fit, my new john holmes would destroy the poor tissue roll..
I cut the roll open and its 5 3/8" to be precise.
Just these results alone gave me an enormous confidence boost.
So anyway, now we get to the banging part:
Last night my wife was wearing a certain night dress I like, with a low v neck,
making her titties almost pop out. We were in the bath room and I was pranching around with my
flaccid veiny schmeckel ( I had just finished a short jelqing session) and she wasnt saying nothing,
but I saw her staring at it. At some point she said, 'you look good you know'.
I said really, well you too. (no word about my dick being big or whatever)
Anyway we ended up on the bed between the clean laundry that needed to fold up, the intoxicating smell of Gain,
we ended up having sex after a week hiatus because of her period.
I looked at my big lots alarm clock, (11:04), I was extremely hard and I started fucking her in her sexy dress,
on her back, with all the titties spilling out , not long before I felt I was going to cum so I pulled out and
sucked on her titties or did some oral for a while, but remembering what she told me last year that haunted
me for all those months, I stuck it back in her moist love canal, and kept slow grinding her for another 5
minutes, she had some small cums, and her eyes started to roll back, I felt it cumming so I pulled out and
performed oral, like I usually do, but with a lot of vigor this time and I didnt think once about my light bill,
deadlines at the office or noisy neighbours.
My cock stayed hard for the full duration of me licking my wife into interstellar extacy.
After she came hard and begged for my cock as usual, I shoved it in deep, on the edge of the bed and
I did some kegels the same time, what followed was really awesome, i was able to continously fuck her for
about 20 minutes, without any interuption, I mean just banging away. I dont know if it was the kegels,
the renewed confidence, my wife that couldnt really make noise because my sister-in-law was staying in
the guest room, but at one point she grabbed a pillow and put it over her head and made muffled noises in it.
The usual feeling of unloading right away didnt come and I just kept on pounding.
She later told me she hadnt cum so hard in years. To finish it off after 20 + minutes we went into the
bath room, and she let me pound her doggie style against the bath room sink, I mean I was banging, pounding,
I'd say for a good 10 minutes. No lies. She was rolling her eyes and having her mouth wide open.
I even told her " this is what you want? this is what you want?" she replied yes yes yes, she then grabbed
my balls while I was doing her from the back, going as deep as I could, and well I unloaded what felt like a
huge wad into her. She had a dazed look and said wow that was amazing. You fucked me so good.
She laid in the bed and went straight to sleep, her titties still hanging out of her night dress. (the little slut! lol)
I told her jokingly 'who's your daddy now' she mumbled "youuuu" . And went off to sleep while I
got some water in the kitchen, rejoicing on the inside.
I was a sceptic but really do see results. Even if its just a huge confidence boost.
I dont know it that was the kegels paying off. Maybe someone can comment on this,
I also do kegels during my commute and at the office. Probably 20-30 3 times a day.
I am upping this now. At first I couldnt do 5, it felt hard to do and I didnt see the point at first.
Also I did some edging.
I am going to continue this, because I see results in the girth, I love all the veins, and I want to hit that 8" marker.
(Purple tooth brush!)
Did someone have similar experiences? Is this the kegels paying off?
Are there other exercises I am missing and should add?
What exactly is an ULI?
I notice when I am warming down all the results of my hard work seem to dissapear for the moment. Is that how its supposed to be?
You can find updates on my growth and ups and downs on my journey to Big Dick Island, if you scroll down this thread.
-starting pictures January 2012
-comparison pics September 2012
-pictures November 2021
-pictures January 2013