Why did you do PE?

[JonPop]

Burt. Change your thinking. A thoughtless comment can cause a women as much hurt as a woman telling a guy his dick is too small. You've got a good thing going, why fuck it up, plus cause hurt?

[burt]

Originally Posted by JonPop

Burt. Change your thinking. A thoughtless comment can cause a women as much hurt as a woman telling a guy his dick is too small. You've got a good thing going, why fuck it up, plus cause hurt?

Very true. The first time we ever had sex, which is almost 4 years ago now, she said and I quote, "well it would have been better if it was bigger". Ouch... She is VERY direct, to say the least. After that, I really didn't have much to do with her as I was seeing other women at the same time. I kind of ignored her and focused on the others. Well, about two years ago now, I started seeing her exclusively, with the execption of some threesomes we have every now and then.
We pick a lot at each other. She tells me my dick is small and teases, then she will say its gotten bigger, which it has. I'm currently 7.25 BPEL x 5.25 Girth, 6.25 at the base. So obviously I'm not small, I realize that. Yet, I know she wishes it was bigger and she was tighter (on my part). Physically, I guess we don't match, but we both love sex and click on that. Strange relationship isn't it?

[mrcarrick]

yeah it is strange but if you having a good time then i guess it dont matter too much, plus this way you both lose any insecurities!

I had a similar thing going and I ended up not caring about the size of my cock

[burt]

Originally Posted by mrcarrick

yeah it is strange but if you having a good time then i guess it dont matter too much, plus this way you both lose any insecurities!

I had a similar thing going and I ended up not caring about the size of my cock

Right. Sometimes the best thing to do with insecurities is to get them out in the open.

[PEkid]

What was your initial size anyway 4 years ago? And is she one of those women that u can insert 4 or 5 fingers when shes aroused?

[burt]

Originally Posted by PEkid

What was your initial size anyway 4 years ago? And is she one of those women that u can insert 4 or 5 fingers when shes aroused?

I was a little over 6'' BP, 5.75 non pressed. Girth wise, I was 5.2 at the base and under 5 mid-shaft. I think these measurements are about as average as you can get.
I haven't tried that many fingers, but I'd say "yes" or close to it anyway. Burt

[MrBigDick]

Originally Posted by W.M.P.

I came across PE back in December '07 while searching online for exercises that could help me keep top-notch penile stamina. I never had any issues with size even though I knew I was average; I had always managed to please every single woman I had been with and I had even gotten a couple of compliments about my cock along the way. However, while in the heat of one of those "marathon romps" @ the beginning of my relationship with my current girl, I noticed that the size (not the hardness) of my erection would diminish quite a bit as fatigue set in after the 1/2hr mark. So I went about searching on the web and found one of many pay-sites where I had my first encounter with jelqing. I forked over the $50.00 and basically got a lame intro to jelqing and nothing else. I did it a couple of times and just forgot about it; I did a lot of edging which I had done in the past and had always worked wonders for me. Come April '08, I got laid off right at the beginning of the "recession"; it was Friday April 25th to be exact. I got home, went online, did a google search on jelqing & edging and found Betterman. Knowing that I had at least a good couple of months before I got a job again (that turned out to be a long 11 months), I signed up @ Betterman and went about learning as much as I could while meeting some of the coolest comrades a man could ever meet. And here I am, almost 2yrs since my first encounter and still meticulously working on mastering the art of PE.

Awwwww, group hug W.M.P.!! lol

[MrBigDick]

Originally Posted by burt

Very true. The first time we ever had sex, which is almost 4 years ago now, she said and I quote, "well it would have been better if it was bigger". Ouch... She is VERY direct, to say the least. After that, I really didn't have much to do with her as I was seeing other women at the same time. I kind of ignored her and focused on the others. Well, about two years ago now, I started seeing her exclusively, with the execption of some threesomes we have every now and then.
We pick a lot at each other. She tells me my dick is small and teases, then she will say its gotten bigger, which it has. I'm currently 7.25 BPEL x 5.25 Girth, 6.25 at the base. So obviously I'm not small, I realize that. Yet, I know she wishes it was bigger and she was tighter (on my part). Physically, I guess we don't match, but we both love sex and click on that. Strange relationship isn't it?

The fact that your both exclusive would mean you both a little something to one another am I right? So why would you two take cheap shots at one another with respect to your bodies and such? Instead of wishing you were this or that and she were this or that, why not simply enjoy each other? I'm 39 and my gf is 50. Sure, she's not as tight as say a 20 year old chick BUT, she's a damn good woman and she gives me as much pussy as I want and I've got a big sexual appetite. We match emotionally and physically..............like two puzzle pieces.

[burt]

Originally Posted by MrBigDick

The fact that your both exclusive would mean you both a little something to one another am I right? So why would you two take cheap shots at one another with respect to your bodies and such? Instead of wishing you were this or that and she were this or that, why not simply enjoy each other? I'm 39 and my gf is 50. Sure, she's not as tight as say a 20 year old chick BUT, she's a damn good woman and she gives me as much pussy as I want and I've got a big sexual appetite. We match emotionally and physically..............like two puzzle pieces.

I'm glad for you and your girlfriend. I mean that, I'm not being sarcastic or snide. That is a very, very nice thing to find when two people click on different levels. To be very honest, I'm not happy and haven't been happy on different levels of our relationship. Sure, we love sex...both very open and adventurous, like to try new things, etc... But on an emotional level and especially and intellectual one, we're a complete mismatch. And I think that gets expressed by both of us through the sometimes cold and hurtful comments we make to one another.


I'm sure one would think, "Well why doesn't he find someone else"? Good point and well taken. To be very frank, we both live in an extremely small town where there is a very limited pool of single or even decent people to date. We would both have to travel...hmmm, I would say roughly two hours to a larger area with more choices. I do absolutely intend to move, but own and work with real estate and obviously now is not a great time to be selling....so I'm stuck in a way. Truth be known, we could both do better and be happier. Best, Burt

[PEkid]

Damn dude! U definitely have a size queen right there in every sense of the word.