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Old 11-02-2007, 04:38 AM   #1 (permalink)
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According to Times Online, sex every day is the prescription to improving sperm quality.
Men who suffer fertility problems because of low sperm quality may
be able to improve their chances of fatherhood by having sex every
day, research has suggested.

While those trying for a baby are often told to refrain from
ejaculating too often to protect their sperm count, Australian
scientists have shown that this can be counterproductive and may
lower male fertility.

Among men whose fertility problems stem from genetic damage to their
sperm rather than a low sperm count, abstaining from sex can make
their difficulties worse, research led by David Greening, of Sydney
IVF, has shown.

The pilot study of 42 men whose sperm showed significant DNA damage
found that daily ejaculation reduced this by 12 per cent. While the
results are preliminary and no direct effect on fertility has yet
been measured, they suggest that certain men could benefit from
having sex more often, or from abstaining less before providing
semen for use in IVF.

Dr Greening, who presented his results at the American Society for
Reproductive Medicine conference in Washington yesterday, said: "I'm
convinced that ejaculating more frequently, ie daily, improves sperm
DNA damage in most men by a decent amount.

"Prior to IVF, for example, men are abstaining a lot more than
normal and perhaps sperm DNA increases more than usual. Men think if
they abstain for longer times before, say, ovulation that their
sperm will be better. [There may be] more volume and numbers but DNA
damage may increase."

Abstaining from sex does increase the number of sperm that are
ejaculated, and this has led to advice that couples trying for a
baby should have sex every two to three days.

Longer periods of abstinence, however, achieve little because while
the quantity of sperm might increase, its quality declines. As sperm
is produced, it is stored in the epididymis at the top of the
testicle, but the longer it sits there the more damage it
accumulates from exposure to free radicals.

Regular ejaculation empties this sperm reservoir, making sure that
newly produced sperm of higher genetic quality can get out.

Allan Pacey, a senior lecturer in andrology at the University of
Sheffield, said that clearing the reservoir was more important when
sperm had high levels of genetic damage. "If you get above 30 to 40
per cent damaged DNA, a man is highly likely to be infertile," he
said. "When you put people on a daily ejaculation regime, it reduces
that figure for DNA damage. If you can go from 30 per cent down to
20 per cent that is quite a big shift, that should have implications
for fertility.

"There is a trade-off between genetic damage and quantity, so when a
couple are first trying to get pregnant a wait of two to three days
is probably advisable. But if you are a guy who has high DNA damage
and a decent sperm count, it is probably in your interest to
ejaculate every day.

"I remember one couple in which the woman would only let the man
ejaculate when she was in her fertile period, so the poor chap was
going without for almost a month at a time.

"Even leaving aside the frustration that must have caused, it would
have had no benefits." (link)

Discussion: A lot of men could only wish their girlfriends or wives would be in the mood every day. But for most men in a long term relationship, it's typically 3 days a week. In your opinion, why do you feel that male's sexual needs generally differ from female's? If you're in a relationship like this, does the difference in needs cause a barrier for you two?
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Haha I knew guys had it right the first time! Nice find.
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Old 12-02-2007, 11:33 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Oh My God, this is a topic a topic I can go on forever about. I am in a serious long distance relationship and happen to be a very nice guy. I could easily get it here, but I don't because I love my woman. She is away at school and I see her once a month. The thing that pisses me off is i hear about other friends in less serious long distance relationships and they see each other on breaks and have some serious sex. On the other hand my gf always has an excuse. The thing that makes no sense is she totally loves it when we do it. I don't brag or exacerbate usually but she generally climaxes several times and does numbers on me with her nails. It really is hurting the relationship especially being long distance that she comes back and hardly wants it. She was home for 4 days, we spent two nights and three days together, and had sex only one time. I kid you not when I say this drove me on the brink of insanity and I had to have a serious serious talk with her about it. I never rush it and am always in it to please her so I can't immagine what I'm doing wrong. If anyone has any similar situations or advice I'd like to hear about it, and to know I'm not the only one in a rut.
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Health: Giving advice on these things is always hard, because lots of variables could come into play. But the two most obvious questions that come into my mind are:
  1. Is her body use to having not a lot of sex? Some women like it less than others. Have you guys always been in a long distance relationship where she didn't want frequently sex?
  2. Is she cheating on you? No guy wants to ask himself this question, but cheating happens a lot . . . especially in long distance relationships. Of course, every relationship is different, so if logic suggests that your woman isn't the cheating type (many are, many aren't), then you probably don't have anything to worry about. Then again, you're still stuck as your needs aren't being fulfilled.
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Well I Know anyone has their doubts but We have a solid relationship. There is no way she would ever cheat on me, I'm so sure I'd bet all the money I'll ever earn in my life on it. We also haven't been in a long distance relationship no. Out of our two year relationship the last 3 months have been long distance. And I always wanted to but we never had LOTS of sex. Kinda a bummer since I'm a very emotional guy and understanding, yet at the same time I'm extremely into sex. It's honestly just one of those weird situations, I doubt there is much of an explanation. If I had to pin it on anything, I'd say it's the amount of stress from her school work and her being exhausted from not sleeping because of all the assignments she has, and even though when she visits she gets some rest here, it's most likely crash time for her body. That's the way I justify it. I just recently talked to her about it and she'll be home for a month for christmas break so I'll see how things go then. Hopefully both her body will adjust to it and it won't cause her pain for a day afterwards, and we she'll simply want to a lot more.
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It's good that you have confidence in your relationship. Hopefully things will swing your way soon. What does she say when you talk to her about it?
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I only really brought it up once, and I tried to make an issue of it, but I love her too much to present it to her as an ultimatum. She told me she would try more, and that I don't give her enough time to change it before talking about it. Considering I also only see her for a few days each month, there isn't lots of time generally. One time she did mention that she feels like a sex doll. Given the context of her statement it was only because we were arguing at the time (and I definately don't make her feel that way); Like I said though, I'll just hang in tight till Christmas break. We have a very close relationship and I only recently brought this up so hopefully she'll take it serious. I've also changed a lot in the past few months. I've become a lot more sexual and want to (as lame as it sounds) explore my sexuality a bit more, try some playful stuff. Who knows, maybe she just always felt uncomfortable about it and now that I'm much more open, I can get her to open up to new stuff as well. We'll see.
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Health: Good luck with it all! You have a good attitude going into the situation, and as long as you keep that going, it will end as good as possible.
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