Feeling inadiquite with my girlfriend

saiyan22 · 03-18-2008, 01:23 PM

Hey guys I'm new here and have been doing basic jelqs for 1 month so far and gained 0.5 inch to my length making it 8 inches long. I am happy with my length but I am feeling pissed off about my girth witch is 5.2 inches.

I am pissed because I had to be curious george and ask my loving girlfriend of 5 months about the biggest penis's she ever had. After warning me about the hearing the truth, I insisted that she tell me. My girlfriend told me that her ex boyfriend before me named Joe had a 7.3 inch long penis but 7.6 inches of girth. She said that she couldn't even get her hand all the way around him. I asked her to discribe it and she said he's entire dick was huge from the base all the way to the head. She later told me that with he's extreme girth he always had a hard time getting his penis 100% hard. Im guessing because he couldn't get enough blood in his penis since it was so thick.

Another huge one she's said she's ben with was some guy she met at a party in college named Rick. She told me that he was well known for being hung and wanted to try him out. After getting what she wanted she told me he was 10-10.5 inches long and a little over 6 inches thick. not as thick as Joe but longer. After hearing this I feel so inferior. I know my girlfriend loves me and she says the sex between us is great, I can't help but think I couldn't possibly be satisfying her like Joe or Rick did.

One thing that sticks in my mind is when she said she couldn't get her hand around Joe's thickness but when she's holding my erect penis, her hand gets around my 5.2 inch girth just fine. It pisses me off. Have any of you had any bad experances about asking your girlfriends about there past lovers.

JonPop · 03-18-2008, 05:51 PM

sayian, welcome to the PE Gym. My advice...Get over it. You asked, she warned, now that you know, drop it. Believe me. It is the way you make love not the size of your penis. Do all the extra things to please her and forget about this hang up you have. You are far bigger than the average man. If you keep obsessing over this, you will drive a wedge between you and your, (your words) loving girlfriend. Those other guys are in the past and she is with you, so their loss. Just my opinion. JP

remek · 03-19-2008, 10:00 PM

sayian: Welcome to The PE Gym!

Listen to JP's advice: Don't dwell on this. Most women really don't care about penis size anyway.

Moreover, you are well above average in the length department, and you're working towards being bigger in the girth department. If you haven't yet, you may want to consider telling your girlfriend about your PE efforts. She may turn out to be supportive.

saiyan22 · 03-20-2008, 11:22 AM

Well the reason I feel this way is because my girlfriend Julie said that when she was younger in her highschool and college days she would sleep with alot of men in search of "the big fat dick". So knowing that my dick is only average girth i can't help but to feel upset especially when she told me that her 7+ girth ex boyfriend was the only guy that could make her cum vaginally. Even though I respect my girl's onisty, that was a major blow to my ego.

Julie claims that she isn't looking for the big fat penis anymore and is looking for love and found it with me, since her ex turned out to be an ahole that cheated on her several times and dumped her.

One thing that I do have over her ex boyfriend is that I don't have any erection problems like he does. Apparently from what my girlfriend told me, with his massive penis he often had a hard time getting a full erection and when he did manage to get a full erection he would often feel faint or about to pass out from so much blood going to his penis to fill it up.

SO I GUESS I SHOULD BE HAPPY I DON'T HAVE THAT PROBLEM.

Girth is definently my top prority since I am satisfied with my 8 inch length.
Im shooting for a 6inch or more girth. MY 5.2 INCH GIRTH HAS GOT TO BE UPGRADED ASAP.

smallie · 03-29-2008, 03:38 PM

if my girl told me that she slept wit like a shit load of dudes in search of "the big fat cock".....
i would...

a. slap that bitch silly for tellin me.....

b. give her an std test...

altho id prolly just kick her ass to the curb...
thats just me tho..

HKguy · 04-10-2008, 05:52 AM

Check this brother, some woman leave men for other woman. Not because they have a bigger penis....but because they are better lovers in bed, do half of what a lesbian couple does and she will melt in-between the sheets.

Good luck, and have FUN!

Andyroo · 04-10-2008, 08:22 AM

Hey man I know how you feel, my current girlfriend has been with quite a few guys, though she didnt go searching for a big fat cock... I know she's slept with at least one guy who had a big one, though I've never asked how big it was and I dont think I will... I know my girlfriends definition of big, is bigger than other girls... at least your member is 8inches long, thats REALLY long! Im only 6.1" so being your length would be like a dream come true.

Keep things in perspective buddy