How long to blow?

[rambloe]

It could be that you are a bit nervous and concentrating too hard.. just relax and try to feel every bit of it.

I usually think and visualise what I want to do to the girl later on in the night.. really dirty thoughts..

[bdiddy]

i used to jack off a lot and have the same issue when getting blowjobs....anyway to fix it?

[GAME]

I have had this exact subject come up from a couple of my buddies in various occasions. We have been to colleges like USF, MSU, and RU where we expecting the girls to be disgustingly good at BJ's. Maybe we were wrong, because everyone of us except like 2 or 3 had trouble going. We agreed on:

the stimulation and sensitivity of every man's penis is different, some people can just hold it and some can't regardless of how much they try. I feel that it can take time before the you and your girlfriend understand what techniques work with each other. Not to mention that being use to sex with condoms and especially without condoms can ruin BJ's. I got to the point where i could last over 15 minutes regularly without a condom and I wouldn't even bother receiving a BJ or HJ because I wouldn't feel it.

MY WITHSTANDING CHART: demonstrating the equalization of sensation and how long you can hold it.

40 min HJ = 25 min BJ = 8 min sex (condom) = 2-3 min sex (no condom)

My point- if your having sex regularly, your tolerance builds and a BJ loses value

INCREASED PLEASURE BJ:

Poprocks
syrup

[figMiNT]

Some of the best ways to get/give oral is to have something to mix with the pleasure. I may be new to PE, but I do not consider myself a newbie when it comes to satisfying a woman, and myself .

Mix Pain With Pleasure
Have her scratch you
Hang onto a pullup bar with your arms

Add Some Flavor
Mint - My preference is Dentyne Ice
Whipped cream
Syrup

Hot and Cold
Be somewhere fairly chilly, like a lake or somewhere you like at night to go "stargazing"- I brought a blanket or two for her. She was covered up and when it was my turn my chest was exposed to the nippy air. Having one part of you hot while the other is cold, feels great.

Those are just some suggestions if you want to get better head. I don't know about it making it shorter or longer. My longest is 1 hour and 40 minutes.

[figMiNT]

Originally Posted by figMiNT

My longest is 1 hour and 40 minutes.

Scratch that. Last night, Christa and I were in a Honda Element (very adjustable) and she was blowing me for 3 hours. It's funny too, because her ex boys' say she was the best head they ever got. She wasn't till, I taught her some tricks. She was an excellent student. Damn, I love kegels. 30 second orgasm.