How long to blow?

Andyroo · 04-08-2008, 01:39 PM

So I just started getting head this weekend and I figured being a rookie at the whole ordeal, I would finish in about 3-4 minutes (my girlfriend was under the same impression) boy were we wrong. After about 30 minutes of basically nothing going on in my balls (dont get me wrong it felt great) I got her to give me a handjob at the same time and after about 40 minutes I finally finished... and since then it hasnt taken under 30 minutes to finish and thats with her doing some "handy work" (pun intended).

I havent asked any of my buddies how long it takes them to go, but is it normal for it to take that long? I mean, I can get her off in under 10 minutes... I always thought the guys were the ones who had to work hard to get girls off, not the other way around.

luvs2meatspin · 04-08-2008, 02:54 PM

maybe shes faking?

ha i joke, but i guarantee you will be thinking about that possibility for a while now....sorry =D

JonPop · 04-08-2008, 03:40 PM

Depends. Some women can suck a golf ball through a hose. It's all about technique.
A woman that really knows how to give head could probably get you off in just a few minutes.

remek · 04-08-2008, 04:49 PM

Andy: It's not abnormal. It could be caused by a lot of things. How often do you ejaculate? Every day? Also, since it was probably your first time, you might not have been as turned onto it as you were expecting (sexual turn ons are often learned, so this could change). Was it her first time too?

Andyroo · 04-08-2008, 05:25 PM

Not her first time, she's had alot of boyfriends before me and I remember talking to one of her ex's and him saying how great of head she gives. As for how often I ejaculate, every couple days I would say... and I was definitely very turned on watching my member go in and out of her mouth was pretty... neat, lol. Maybe its because it was the first few times that I received oral sex, thats possible.

As for her faking it, lol luv, I dont know if a girl can fake cuming... and she was also paranoid about my house mates hearing her after we finished, she was having a hard time not yelling immensely

PietJan · 04-15-2008, 06:00 AM

Not abnormal, I lose my erection during a blowjob for unknown reasons. I can face fuck her but as soon as she starts giving me head my penis loses its erection. I probably just get overexcited and the adrenaline gets to me since I haven't really had blowjobs before and I need to get used to the extremely horny stuff. (once again; adrenaline is a killer)

You can work on the orgasm timing by "teasing" yourself (by playing with her or letting her tease you) and making yourself really horny before letting her do the real work. Don't wait too long if you get really horny, the moment you're having a real problem controling yourself is when she should start. After that you might run in the not-horny part after being horny which stays for a couple of minutes.

What works for me is seeing her pleasure herself/me pleasuring her or just looking at her ass for a while.. After that I can come within 20 seconds. And don't get me wrong, I'm not a fast comer. I can just control it by switching certain knobs on and off in my head.

stretcharmstrong · 04-17-2008, 03:23 PM

Good to know I'm not the only one who gets this (>30m blowjobs and loss of erection during BJ) I think in my case it comes down to my stamina versus her TMJ we usually stop 10-20 minutes in these days because her jaw starts to hurt. On the flip side...her blowjobs make for great foreplay, turning us both on for the main course, so as long as I get to visit both sets of lips I don't complain about one failing to do what the other was designed for.