- 11-26-2011 #1
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My girl has just recently started squirting after some effort on my part to make her to..(she only used to exclusively get clit orgasms).. thing is, she can squirt regularly now but she doesn't cum when she squirts..like it doesnt feel particularly good for her. I want to learn to make her squirt AND orgasm at the same time.
- 11-27-2011 #2
It's called a squirting orgasm, so she did "cum" when she squirted. When I have them, my legs start getting tingly and it's real quick. I can have many back to back if my husband keeps working on my G-spot. There's lots of fluid also so a towel or two is advised
Did you ask her why she didn't like the feeling? In the beginning, I thought I was peeing on my man(always use bathroom before engaging) and didn't fully "let go" because the fluid is more watery and wasn't sure of it/what was happening. Did a little online research and since my husband told me to just relax and go with it, they're so much better for me.
Hopefully, she'll start to enjoy them soon
Added: There are already a few squirting threads so maybe you should look through them as well.
- 11-27-2011 #3
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Well that's the thing, she said when she squirted, it didn't feel like an orgasm. She said the build up to the squirt felt good but when she squirted, she didn't feel anything particularly good, so she didn't feel like she came. Like there was no tingling, or pulsating, or anything like that. I've given her a G-spot orgasm with my fingers and she does not feel anything like that at all when she squirts. I've done some research too and some people do say that they don't have an orgasm when they squirt. They just..squirt, that's it. So I wanna get her to have an actual orgasm at the moment that she squirts.
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- 11-27-2011 #4
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I would say it will getbetter and you two will get the timing, just let it cum.overtraining stops the gaining!
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- 11-28-2011 #5
When I squirt, I always have a orgasm to go along with it. Granted they are small, quick ones that can happen about every 30-60 seconds, but they get my heart racing really fast and I have tingling sensations throughout my legs. They're totally unlike the jumping off a cliff into raging rolling waters orgasms that have you incapacitated for a while. I can recover within 5 or so seconds and am ready to go again with squirting Os.
Sorry I can't answer "How?" I get really lost in the moment and I just let go. There's nothing that I or my husband did to try to make it happen, it just did.
Hopefully, it'll happen for you guys, just try not to put too much pressure on her to have an orgasm as it will put her off and make it feel like a chore and less enjoyable.
- 11-28-2011 #6
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When she start squirting, keep rubbing that gspot hard and fast.Current: BPEL Ask
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- 11-29-2011 #7
Ok, did a little "research" for you last night. Here's how it happens for me: Husband's rubbing my g spot in circular motions, quickly. I can feel it swelling, getting highly aroused, I'm kegeling the hell out of his fingers. Once I get that "gotta go" feeling, I know it'll happen. I give my husband his cue, and he starts thrusting his fingers(2 fingers) in deep, and when he brings them out, he rubs up and against my g spot, sort of milking it. I have to stop kegeling, totally relaxed, even push out sometimes. It normally happens after two or three thrusts. He brings his fingers completely out and runs them up to my clit before inserting them again. Same story when it's his penis instead of fingers. So, my whole area down there is on fire and highly aroused.
Normally, I've already have a clit orgasm so maybe with the combination of all this arousal and being totally relaxed, she'll have orgasms along with squirting. He is also laying beside me with his legs wrapped around one of mine so I can feel his erection on my thigh. He knows I like this, and he's always working on my neck or breasts/nipples so I have a lot of stimulation everywhere. Hope this helps
- 11-30-2011 #8
Awesome reply, SLU. An excellent, self-aware description.
One of my girlfriends squirts in my hand all the time, with no orgasm. But she can also have an orgasm and squirt. The two responses are not necessarily related or interlinked.Started: BPEL 6.5", EG 4.5"
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- 12-01-2011 #9
- 10-17-2012 #10
I've made my girl squirt once, but it was when we were first together and still experimenting a lot.
It was definitely one of those times I wish I'd had a towel...
I would definitely like to master it (for her to master it and for me to too). & of course I would like her to cum at the same time too.
However, it is still mostly new territory for me. All I can say is that I think it is mostly about the fingers (/toy) being at the right angle/spot.
I would have to guess that if you want an orgasm at the same time, well then timing is key..
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