From Your experience

[BigO]

I started at 6 x 5.5 and before PE I had more than one comment about having a fat one. Helpmeout, your good and you shouldnt feel small. I always thought they were just being nice by saying that about me but after seeing average I realized the comments were true. I am now at 6 MEG and I also do not want any more girth.
There was a comment about guys measuring wrong if they didnt know PE andthis is true because I used to measure from the side when I was younger, not to lie but because I didnt know better . When I figured out how to measure correctly it sure sucked to lose an inch in 15 seconds. I gained it back and i am happier than smiling Bob

[helpmeout]

Yeah, I actually was going to say the same thing. I'm 6 inches non bone pressed and most girls cant even remotely get all the way down on me. To think that you just started having problems with a 7 incher, I want to live where the women you know live haha

[BTBrian]

Yeah, I actually was going to say the same thing. I'm 6 inches non bone pressed and most girls cant even remotely get all the way down on me. To think that you just started having problems with a 7 incher, I want to live where the women you know live haha

I'm only about 6 inches non bone pressed too though, my (near) 7 incher is bone pressed

[CaptainJohnson]

I'm only about 6 inches non bone pressed too though, my (near) 7 incher is bone pressed

My girl can take all of me, but not early in penetration. Also, in certain g-spot focused positions, I only use maybe half of my length to stimulate her, because putting the whole thing in, on that angle, causes her serious pain. If one of the easiest positions to cause g-spot stimulation only requires 3-4 inches insertion, I think basically every guy is fine unless they have some serious micro-penis.

[going411by7]

It's weird man. I just don't get it. It's completely and utterly delusional to think otherwise when presented with 10+ studies on size, plus a 4000 vote self measured survey at thunders place that puts the avg around 6 or less BPEL, to believe that the avg is still almost an inch above that. If someone was just an unbiased onlooker, they'd think we're cooks... and we most likely are. But it doesn't help the image in our minds.

I too feel that when faced with this mountain of information, all pointing to the same conclusion, I still do not believe it. I feel like everyone is either the same or bigger than me. But again, to think of 10+ studies plus a 4000 vote survey, all being wrong, lends me to believe the problem lies in our heads and not in our dicks. However that realization never helps me even though I am able to recognize that. Probably the only way I would ever actually get over this is if I saw a bunch of normal men erect in person, which, unless my life takes a crazy turn, will probably never happen .

One of the guys said earlier in the thread that he had a 6.75 bpel and got multiple comments on size. So I don't know what to believe. It would be logical to believe the studies and surveys instead of believing what men and women say by word of mouth, but I guess logic does not apply in our situation, because no matter how hard I try to look at it objectively, it never helps.

I don't care how small your cock is, when it swells up with pride, a woman will comment on how large it is. It's kind of
a magical thing to a woman--and to a male when he first gets erections.

The Thunder's study (I've read it) seems to hit the nail on the head. I always thought my cock was
average until I started to practice p.e. and then joined Thunder's.

Mind you, I started at 7.75".

[helpmeout]

One other thing that has hurt my confidence and made my general distrust for penis size surveys is amateur porn. I'm not talking about studio porn where they try to make it look amateur, i'm talking about legitimate "regular people just screwin around in front of a camera" type amateur porn. I've noticed that almost all of the dicks seem to be bigger than mine. Now, granted, you are not going to want to be on camera with a small penis, that is understood. But if 6 bone pressed is the real average, how is it that at almost 7 bpel, everyone on amateur porn still looks bigger than me? Even sextapes that were accidentally leaked (Like fred dursts) feature dicks that look at least 6.5 nbpel if not more. I dont understand the abundance of these types of videos. You think if the average is 6 bone pressed, the leaked sex tapes might be around 6 bone pressed.

[Jayj]

One other thing that has hurt my confidence and made my general distrust for penis size surveys is amateur porn. I'm not talking about studio porn where they try to make it look amateur, i'm talking about legitimate "regular people just screwin around in front of a camera" type amateur porn. I've noticed that almost all of the dicks seem to be bigger than mine. Now, granted, you are not going to want to be on camera with a small penis, that is understood. But if 6 bone pressed is the real average, how is it that at almost 7 bpel, everyone on amateur porn still looks bigger than me? Even sextapes that were accidentally leaked (Like fred dursts) feature dicks that look at least 6.5 nbpel if not more. I dont understand the abundance of these types of videos. You think if the average is 6 bone pressed, the leaked sex tapes might be around 6 bone pressed.

Because your penis will always look smaller to you! Not only because of self-confidence issues but also because of your point of view. Remember that you're always looking at your penis from ABOVE.

With that angle and perspective, your penis simply looks smaller.

Try something: take pictures of yourself from afar, or watch at yourself in front of a mirror... I can assure you: you will see a difference

Those guys in amateur porn are not "that big" (keeping in mind of course that guys with small dicks are more seldom in amateur porn yes), but the angle, the point of view isn't their eyes, but the camera lens

[helpmeout]

I look at myself in the mirror and appear tiny too. Certain pictures make it look okay but other than that I still look small to myself no matter what I do.


Heres an example of my worry about size. Take this thread, almost everyone if not everyone commenting is 6.0 bpel or above. Not one below as far as I can tell. If people who are under 6 bpel don't even have the confidence to post on a message board (as it seems primarily that the bigger guys are the posters, but the sizs surveys on the website indicate a ton of average/small guy lurkers), than what kindof confidence will they have with women? Thats why I feel like the avg for all of society is 6 bpel. But the dicks women see are 6BPEL and up with very little from the men below.

[Hopeful&dedicated]

I look at myself in the mirror and appear tiny too. Certain pictures make it look okay but other than that I still look small to myself no matter what I do.


Heres an example of my worry about size. Take this thread, almost everyone if not everyone commenting is 6.0 bpel or above. Not one below as far as I can tell. If people who are under 6 bpel don't even have the confidence to post on a message board (as it seems primarily that the bigger guys are the posters, but the sizs surveys on the website indicate a ton of average/small guy lurkers), than what kindof confidence will they have with women? Thats why I feel like the avg for all of society is 6 bpel. But the dicks women see are 6BPEL and up with very little from the men below.

I feel ya. I have huge palms and it does not make my unit look flattering when being held.

[helpmeout]

Yeah, but you have a big dick, plain and simple haha