the "spot" for girls

[whatisthis]

i cant seem to find my gf's spot, clitoris?, constantly.
when she sits on my lap and i reach for her vagina around her hip, i can get to the spot. but when shelays down on her back and im on top of her, i cant find that spot. not sure if you get what i mean. her spot seems like a small thing inside of her vag which feels like a tiny peanut lol.
how do i find this when she is laid down on her back?

[imac]

Read these threads.
I found the A spot. Thanks to those that helped me find it!
and
The Anatomy of the Female Orgasm

[Steve23]

Spread her lips or pull her hood back, or let her show you.

[Sonic]

Agree with Steve just ask her to show you if you are unsure.

[blulite]

i cant seem to find my gf's spot, clitoris?, constantly.
when she sits on my lap and i reach for her vagina around her hip, i can get to the spot. but when shelays down on her back and im on top of her, i cant find that spot. not sure if you get what i mean. her spot seems like a small thing inside of her vag which feels like a tiny peanut lol.
how do i find this when she is laid down on her back?

the clitoris when she is laid down is towards the top of the vagina between the labia and under the clitoral hood.. if you pull her pussy apart and look towards the top you should see it protruding, if you still cant see it take the thumbs and pull the top 2-3 inches of the pussy outwards and upwards, this 99.9% of the time will cause the clitoris to pop out from under the hood giving you a better view.

if you still cant find it, heres a pic

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m19hpocChs1qjxzb4.jpg

[adiavroxos]

I think its best to just find it by yourself using the above picture and not ask her, as many girls have absolutely no idea where the clitoris is...
Also, many girls will hurt when their clitoris is stimulated directly or when they are not wet enough. So I would avoid stimulating it directly when she feels pain or discomfort. A good way to stimulate the clitoris is by using a bit of saliva around it and then rub the skin that surrounds it with circular motion. That way she wont hurt and will still love the feeling.