Ladies as I have posted in other threads I have had to bring toys into my new relationship because of ED. The whole toy thing has been a HUGE issue for me the last 2 weeks. Multiple things have bothered me as I am anti toy.
My latest issue that came up last night is that I found out that the vibe my GF was using during sex was used in other relationships. I didn't like the idea that she had received pleasure from/with others with it.
She said I was being ridiculous as she cleans them after every use and that it is her personal vibrator that she uses alone and with others. I guess it would be like a guys favorite putter.
I told her that it is a bit too intimate and her view is that toys are not intimate they are inanimate. She asked why should she buy new toys for new relationships unless it was something she bought specifically for another guy? She bought a strapon for me to use on her and used this as an example.
By the way I am definitely not liking the strapon idea. I told her to put it away 2 weeks ago after she showed it to me but I will probably have to cave on that soon.
Ladies am I being unreasonable about her recycling toys?