If you view our nerve endings as extensions of the brain, our whole body is like a thought pattern. Mind blowing orgasms are exactly that. "Mind" blowing. Usually all it takes to make a woman cum like a monkey during love making, is not to let her slip away into fairyland like what happens with so many people during sex. Keep her present, in the moment, mentally engaged.. and you can work magic, no matter the size of your wand.