[Chizomp]

My gf some nights decides to give me head, before sex you know the kiss / lick from the mouth down to the shaft.....

But there is a problem, Shes a "Scraper" witch sometimes makes me hurt and i pretend i like it, but its actually painful and uncomftorable especially when she hits the tip. Sometimes its hard for me to keep it up!

now my girl is 5'3 dinky little thing and i love her to peices, and im 6'5 with 7"BPEL 5" girth...

How do i tell her to give proper head? or how do i avoid this situation?

TEETH HITTEN THE HEAD hurt!!!!

[fun4me2_yk]

There is only one way to do it, Tell her. Honestly, without making fun of her and most definitely not while she's doing it. Tell her that her teeth hurt you but otherwise you love what she's doing, better yet I recently had a woman tell me that the greatest thing someone did for her was to take her finger in their mouth and show her what they wanted while she was doing it. Either way, you have to tell her, straight out. Half of sex is communication, if you aint talking then you aren't going to have great sex.

[mrcarrick]

If you cant be honest which is the best way. Perhaps squirm a little or say 'ouch' softly and of course she will ask whats wrong then go from there maybe?

But id justtell her straight up and be sensitive about it and dont make her feel like she is bad at blowies.

Let us know how you get on man

[Chizomp]

Yah, id just feel like an asshole if i did... But thanks for the tip!

[fun4me2_yk]

seriously man, just be sensitive like Mrcarrick said, say ouch or something similar or talk to her about it afterwards like I suggest. but its up to you you can feel like an asshole while enjoying awesome blowjobs, or you can say nothing and get turned off at the thought of her touching you.

[W.M.P.]

Originally Posted by fun4me2_yk

Half of sex is communication, if you aint talking then you aren't going to have great sex.

Bingo! Now, the key here is to accentuate the positives, by telling her how you like it. There's no need to tell her what you don't like (focusing on the negatives) when you can simply take control of the situation by showing her, step by step, how you like it. You have to understand that just like she will always know her pussy better that you or anyone else, you will always know what rocks your dick more than her or anyone else. I would make some time for a little "workshop" between the 2 of you; dim the lights, put some nice music at a low volume (low enough that you can speak softly to each other; some acoustic Pat Metheny should do the trick.), light up some candles (make one of those a Lavender/Vanilla scented candle, which will help relax you both) and take turns showing each other what does the trick for each of you. Create a positive, non-judgmental occasion, where you take your sweet time asking each other for hands-on guidance and showing each other in as much detail what it is that you like. Go into details, such as how fast/slow, how hard/soft, how much pressure, how much tongue, how much lip, nibbling, suckling, etc. Communication is key for the success of a relationship, and the more you make out of this special occasion with her, the better you'll both be able to enhance your relationship and each other by constantly improving the most primal, intimate and enlightening form of communication two lovers can engage on: Sex.

[growing4her]

Bite her vagina . Then when she screams and says it hurts like that . Tell her your sorry and that you thought you were the only one who didnt like teeth on thier privates.

[JonPop]

Originally Posted by growing4her

Bite her vagina . Then when she screams and says it hurts like that . Tell her your sorry and that you thought you were the only one who didnt like teeth on thier privates.

Boo, G4. I know that was tongue in cheek, but....WHAT?

[Nikki]

Originally Posted by JonPop

Boo, G4. I know that was tongue in cheek, but....WHAT?

You mean "tongue in pink"!

[JonPop]

Originally Posted by Nikki

You mean "tongue in pink"!

Pretty quick, Nik.