[Nikki]

A friend of mine went on a two week cruise with her husband this summer. While on the ship, they met a couple similar to their ages. They quickly hit it off and began to do various activities such as sightseeing, dining, etc. One night they all had a lot to drink and the talk shifted to sex. One comment led to another which led to another before they ultimately began talking about couple swapping for the night. They all four agreed that it would be "adventuresome". So, each guy took the other woman back to his room and spent the night.

Now, my question for everyone is what would you have done in such a situation? Would you like to spend the night screwing a beautiful, sexy woman while another man was screwing your wife/girlfriend in another room?

[growing4her]

Possibly, if the other lady was hotter/sexier and it was my girlfriend not my wife I was trading.

[Gravik]

if it was my girlfriend and the other girl was hotter and sexier, then maybe. if it was my wife, no way.

[Squid]

I've been there before. In my case it was a couple of friends who also happened to be swingers and while at our house a similar situation popped up. We decided to "soft swap" so we all four played for awhile but the "other" couples only performed oral sex on us and visa versa. It sort of just happened so was not rerady to dive head first, so to speak, into it. Both the women were models and working actresses (some of you may have even seen) so both were equally knock down gorgeous. No one was feeling left out. I could not get into the idea at all of going off into different rooms. For me, there would be no pleasure in knowing my wife was off sleeping with another guy no matter how hot the girl I was with looked.

It was all interesting but I realized two things that night:

A) I was not turned on watching my wife with another man (in fantasies yes but the reality was not the same).

B) I was very turned on watching her with another woman.

Over the course of our marriage (about another 5 years) we did have a few more threesomes with another couple girls which was great and we really enjoyed it. After the divorce (nothing to do with the couple swapping or threeways) I went out with a girl who was into the swinging scene and because I was not head over heels in love with her, I went with it and spent a few months in the lifestyle. Her big thing was actually just watching me have sex with other women so was not a bad deal

I was with a few other bi-women after that and had a couple other girl-girl-man threesomes. I have certainly had my share of it all.

The strange twist to this is that 10 years later, I am now with the girl who I swapped with back with my wife! It was just a strange coincidence that we found each other all these years and relationships later. But, she had really had enough of that life which was nice for me as she got pretty heavy into it (and even worked as an escort for a few months when the post-divorce debt piled up) so the idea of more men on her was not really ringing my bell. She was pretty over it as well and looking for a more traditional relationship.

But, we are going to try being with another girl together at least once since we both feel it is something we want to do as a couple. We both know the ups and downs so are pretty prepared for the whole thing if and when we do it.

So, that is my on-going story in the world of swinging and threesomes....

[phallic1]

Thanks for sharing Squid. That is a very intersting combo of relationship experiences.

Nikki, as for swapping, I could never do it...shudders at the thought. I enjoy the feeling of being her "one and only" with my girlfriend and I want her to feel the same towards me. I would be heartbroken if my girlfriend or wife was willing to share me in exchange for another man.

[remek]

Originally Posted by Squid

I've been there before . . .

So, that is my on-going story in the world of swinging and threesomes....

Interesting experiences, Squid. Unless someone else is willing to step up and share even more, I think you may get "the most experienced" award here.

[kingpole]

No.....im to old fashioned, i guess.

[MrBigDick]

Nope, not for me. I like knowing that I'm the only one my gf will fuck, suck and fawn all over and me her. I will not share my girl with another guy and my girl gets plenty of looks from other guys out there but she's my cougar and I be her cub!

[Pegasus]

What a great story squid thanks for sharing.

[Green]

Squid that's great because I think that a woman with my 'to be' wife or girlfriend would be extraaaaooordinary!!!!!but as for wife swapping I would probably say yes!!