[HotRod]

I'm curious what sorts of personal work women do in order to learn to be better lovers. I've just observed that men have penis enlargement and all this new dating/seduction/pick-up advice that they take very seriously. The motivations and levels of dedication vary, but it basically comes back to being a better lover and more skilled at initiating relationships with women.

I'm curious what the equivalents might be for women.

"I wonder if my vagina will be too big for most men?" Is that even something women talk about? I've actually been inside some lame vaginas. It's hard to describe, but it's like there isn't any life in there no matter how aroused she is. Is there something women can do about that?

I've been with a few women and I can tell you that each of them should have been more than a little concerned about her skills as a lover. These are smart, aware, talented, worldly and educated women, by they way. Some of them had a lot more sexual experience than I did. I've always sensed an imbalance - that I'm a much more intuitive and skillful lover than any of the women I've been with. It's almost like they just don't care to do anything to make the experience better for themselves or their men.

Do women generally care about becoming a better lover? Or do men just have this social/cultural pressure and resulting insecurity that we unfortunately have to deal with?

[Nacho]

There are magazines like Cosmopolitan where it seems like every month they have articles about how to drive your man wild, or be a better lover etc.

Probably most women are like most men, clueless.

[Pegasus]

Women should do kegals etc to tighten up, they all know this, but few do them.
While I have had many skilled lovers, you are correct that many just lie there and want the man to make it all happen.

[HotRod]

Originally Posted by Nacho

There are magazines like Cosmopolitan where it seems like every month they have articles about how to drive your man wild, or be a better lover etc.

Probably most women are like most men, clueless.

Good point. I guess it all comes back to chemistry and communication.

[HotRod]

Originally Posted by Pegasus

Women should do kegals etc to tighten up, they all know this, but few do them.
While I have had many skilled lovers, you are correct that many just lie there and want the man to make it all happen.

I had a girlfriend who had a very tight pussy. It was actually unpleasant. She never felt aroused. Her blossom never opened to me So I suppose there's a balance with kegels too. To me she always felt locked up and dry, even though she acted aroused and said I was driving her crazy. That relationship didn't last a month.

[Pegasus]

Obviously this is part of skill Hotrod and an example of how women could improve themselves.

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by Nacho

There are magazines like Cosmopolitan where it seems like every month they have articles about how to drive your man wild, or be a better lover etc.

Probably most women are like most men, clueless.

LOL I was gonna say... WE READ COSMO

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by HotRod

I had a girlfriend who had a very tight pussy. It was actually unpleasant. She never felt aroused. Her blossom never opened to me So I suppose there's a balance with kegels too. To me she always felt locked up and dry, even though she acted aroused and said I was driving her crazy. That relationship didn't last a month.

INTERESTING! I think we should start a thread "tell us about the pussy" I wanna hear all the different experiences you guys have had with pussy. We dont fuck women and we only play with our own pussy sooo, we dont see, touch, feel etc any pussy but our own. It would be nice to get "The inside" on the "other" pussy's what you liked and what you disliked.

[five_dollar_footlong]

too me this is how girls show there dedication to men just as we do with are cocks
most girls that i know and the one i have are always doing stuff like trying to smell good and cometology stuff with make up
and shaving and cooking(MY FAV) and painting nails and all these little stuff that make's them look good and attract us men
plus whoever brought up kegels is dumb asking her to do kegels to her twat is like saying your no good no more(my opinion) but if she's too loose I will continue PE til im confident with my size which will probly be never bigger is my personal goal not her's

[Pegasus]

Well BB I have given a detailed descripition of the perfect pussy elsewhere that you read . I could describe many for you that I have experienced, but have to say there arn't many I don't like.
Five you make good points about the trouble women go to attracting men, perhaps some think their job is done before they get to bed.
Hey we do kegals, women should also.