[RIB2211]

So I'm really good friends with this girl at my school...our majors are the same so we have classes together every semester (small school and all). Anyway, it's no secret around campus that this girl is a knock-out. I got to know her really well when she dated one of my friends last year.

Anyway, her and I talk a ton in class because it's a do-nothing class (the best kind of class in college). Out of all the women I have ever met, she has the biggest sexual appetite of them all, but I would not classify her as "easy" at all. She loves sex, and she loves doing it with guys she is dating. So we got to talking about sex, and without me asking, she told me how when she dated my friend, he was very selfish in bed, didn't do any foreplay, and would just try and get himself off. She then went on to tell me that the best sex she's had is when guys get really into foreplay, and do some kind of oral beforehand.

I then made a joke about size, saying "Well if a guy is bigger...", just to see what her reaction was. She laughed and basically brushed it aside, talking more about how important foreplay was.

It's easy to read stuff on here, but it's so much more...reassuring (I guess is the right word) to hear from a girl, in person, who has had multiple sexual partners that foreplay and the right mood put size in the back seat.



...then she told me she is the self-proclaimed master of blowjobs because she has no gag reflex, and I about fainted.

[eompow]

Well that sounds very interesting, but "could you" ask for some first hand experience. Could go a long way in making her claims more real to you.

Just thinking?????

[Big Tom]

Wow, you have struck gold my friend! lol

[RIB2211]

If her and the girl I am talking to right now weren't such good friends, I'd be asking her out right now.

And eompow, I'm not quite sure what you're asking bud...I never really asked her about her sexual experiences, she just openly told me. I'm not going to try and dig deeper, I don't want to be some sex creep to her...

[MrBigDick]

I can relate to part of this. My gf has no gag reflex either and gives great head. I should know......:-)

Maybe she told you all that in an effort to indirectly tell you she's interested in you??? Very, VERY few girls out there go into their high sex drive and how much they like sex with a guy in loose conversation unless their interested in making you one of their conquests. Might be worth exploring.

[Radiohead]

Are you going to manage to date her?

Is she showing any other indicators of interest? The fact that you guys openly discussed sex like that is a big IOI (indicator of interest). The same thing happened to me with this girl. We met at a friend's house, we spoke openly about sex and ended up having sex.

Play it smooth. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. Act like you're the prize.

[Big Tom]

Originally Posted by Radiohead

Play it smooth. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.

What did you mean by this RadioHead?

[RIB2211]

Hahaha sorry guys, I'm dating her friend and she knows this. I'm the guy right now trying to hook her up with some players on the team, which is why she was so open in talking about sex with me. That and we're just cool like that. I don't think she is interested at all, and neither am I, since I got something good going right now with her friend after I resolved an issue with a past flame.

Really I just made this thread because for me, it's one thing to read women like Nikki post online and say "size isn't everything, foreplay and arousal are much more important"...but to hear it from a girl like this, it was really eye-opening.

[JonPop]

RIB, that's exactly why we asked the girls to join the PE Gym. They give real time, real world advice that can only come from a female perspective.

[RIB2211]

Oh I know JonPop, I'm not questioning this site or users like Nikki here at all. It's just for me, hearing that in person from a women that is very sexually active just made it hit home even more, you know?