I have been married since April 8th. We are still newlyweds. We are both 24. I am in the military, in awesome shape, muscular and cut. She is a little thicker, but not even close to fat. Perfect in my eyes. Honestly, our relationship is amazing and I know that she loves me a ton, besides one thing that really eats away at me. I don`t know why she never shows any signs off lust towards me. It actually kinda hurts, like feeling rejected and undesired. I have been deployed for the past 4 months. I`ve started to notice that she never asks me for anything, I`m always the one to bring up the subject of anything sexual, and even then it`s short lived because it wont go anywhere. I ask her for pics pretty often. She sends them occasionally, like if shes getting out of the shower. But mainly mirror pictures in bra and panties. I only have 2 pictures on her without a bra on, and never sent me pics of anything dirtier. And she will only flash her boobs on skype for about 3 seconds, and sounded slightly offended when I asked her if she would let me watch her "take care of business" one time while i did the same for her.
She doesn`t ask me for any dirty pics, or anything that would constitute as sexy. You would think, that as a newlywed couple after 4 months of separation, that she would at least have to get off once a week. She has only told me that she has done it once, and I ask her if she`s had to about every month or so. I would send her a small vibrator hoping to get her into it a little more, she said it would go into the garbage if I did that. And I can`t make her want me more nor do I want her to pretend, because it would just be a lie. I know every woman is different, but I mean come on. We`re both young, and newly married. It`s like she doesn`t miss being sexual with me at all. And she has said many times that she enjoys the sex we have way more than any past experience. Even though she initiated only twice while I was home, and it felt like she did it because I would like it. I don`t want her to do things just to make me happy, I just wish she wanted me more in that aspect because it makes her happy too. I have no idea what to do or think about this.
I sure hope some very insightful ladies can comment on this and possibly help me out. I`m about at witts end here and it hurts.
She doesn`t ask me for any dirty pics, or anything that would constitute as sexy. You would think, that as a newlywed couple after 4 months of separation, that she would at least have to get off once a week. She has only told me that she has done it once, and I ask her if she`s had to about every month or so. I would send her a small vibrator hoping to get her into it a little more, she said it would go into the garbage if I did that. And I can`t make her want me more nor do I want her to pretend, because it would just be a lie. I know every woman is different, but I mean come on. We`re both young, and newly married. It`s like she doesn`t miss being sexual with me at all. And she has said many times that she enjoys the sex we have way more than any past experience. Even though she initiated only twice while I was home, and it felt like she did it because I would like it. I don`t want her to do things just to make me happy, I just wish she wanted me more in that aspect because it makes her happy too. I have no idea what to do or think about this.
I sure hope some very insightful ladies can comment on this and possibly help me out. I`m about at witts end here and it hurts.
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