I've been edging and doing other exercises to beat my premature ejaculation. After the third day of edging I like to end the 20 minute session by forcing myself to cum. Is that counterproductive to the edging or no?
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Is it counterproductive to force yourself to cum when edging
Biggest Goal : Fight my Premature Ejac
I BEAT IT! :D https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ml#post1651959
BPEL : 18.5 (7.2 IN) X MEG : 11.7 CM (4.6 IN) Stretched Flaccid : 7.75in
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Hard to say.
Seems to me, though, that if you need to "force yourself to cum" then maybe you do not need the edging.
I see edging as practice to help myself stop cumming.
However, if you are using edging as a part of your PE routine, IE towards making size gains, then the conventional wisdom is that ejaculation should be separated from exercise by about 2 hours to maximize gains.03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
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Originally posted by incogneeetoe View PostHard to say.
Seems to me, though, that if you need to "force yourself to cum" then maybe you do not need the edging.
I see edging as practice to help myself stop cumming.
However, if you are using edging as a part of your PE routine, IE towards making size gains, then the conventional wisdom is that ejaculation should be separated from exercise by about 2 hours to maximize gains.Last edited by Couchdog; 04-19-2018, 11:30 PM.Biggest Goal : Fight my Premature Ejac
I BEAT IT! :D https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ml#post1651959
BPEL : 18.5 (7.2 IN) X MEG : 11.7 CM (4.6 IN) Stretched Flaccid : 7.75in
Goal: 8inch BP X 5.5in Girth
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In tackling my preE I edge without ejaculating. I set a goal for myself that I would only ejaculate with my wife. AND I would only ejaculate once for her every 10 orgasms.
I still do not ejaculate when edging. I have trained myself quite well in that regard. The 1:10 ratio is no longer my goal as I generally am at the point that I can decide if I want to ejaculate or not. So we are at about a 1:5 ratio. My wife will orgasm 5 times to my once. Usually that gives my an orgasm a week.
By taking the ejaculation of the equation I was able to realign my mental preE. The physical aspect soon followed.03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
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12/2019 EL: +2.2 MEG: +1 <Able to last 60+ mins PIV>
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I'm doing 1:3 right now. I'll bump that up to 1:5 and add lube so it's super super intense. Hopefully this helpsBiggest Goal : Fight my Premature Ejac
I BEAT IT! :D https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ml#post1651959
BPEL : 18.5 (7.2 IN) X MEG : 11.7 CM (4.6 IN) Stretched Flaccid : 7.75in
Goal: 8inch BP X 5.5in Girth
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hello guys.
I have a question.
Normaly when i edge i try to be always in a ReverseKegel state, no pushing hard, but just relaxing the Pc muscle, basically i try never to do a normalkegel.
So what happens is this, if i edge while thinking about things that really turn me on, i easily reach PONR, and sometimes i can last only 2 minutes depending on speed . But...if i dont think about those things and i think about numbers or country names or even just my breathing i can last for ever, i even try to simulate doggystyle thrusting or other positions, and fast and furious and if i breathe and dont think about sex i can last long.
Me and my girl are kindda not doing sex because i was on SSRI for some time and i kill my libido i lasted forever but very hard to get hard, but now im always horny and raging erections but premature ejaculation is killing me. So i didnt try this method in real sex.
SO whats the meaning of this?
I i dont think or focus in things that make me horny i can last long, is it a problem of to much mental arrousal? to much dopamine? because if it was about pelvic floor or other things, how could i last so long just not thinking of sex, and i didnt loose erection....
thanks guys, premature ejaculation is really heavy thing to deal with. But there is hope.
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Originally posted by greatmaster View PostI have a question.
Normally when i edge i try to be always in a Reverse Kegel state, no pushing hard, but just relaxing the PC muscle, basically i try never to do a normal kegel.
Originally posted by greatmaster View PostSo what happens is this, if i edge while thinking about things that really turn me on, i easily reach PONR, and sometimes i can last only 2 minutes depending on speed . But...if i dont think about those things and i think about numbers or country names or even just my breathing i can last for ever,
SO whats the meaning of this?
I i dont think or focus in things that make me horny i can last long, is it a problem of to much mental arrousal? to much dopamine? because if it was about pelvic floor or other things, how could i last so long just not thinking of sex, and i didnt loose erection....03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
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12/2019 EL: +2.2 MEG: +1 <Able to last 60+ mins PIV>
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Originally posted by greatmaster View Postthanks for your reply.
So you think its better to edge and think about sex and hot women etc, or trying to edge without mental or visual estimulation?
Originally posted by greatmaster View PostWhat are your results? you feel you can last long doing sex because of edging pratice?
But I definitely have made major improvements to how long I can last. I used to be in the 1~5 minute range foe PIV sex. Now I regularly go 15~20 minutes. And can do 30 minutes.03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
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12/2019 EL: +2.2 MEG: +1 <Able to last 60+ mins PIV>
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Originally posted by Couchdog View PostI've been edging and doing other exercises to beat my premature ejaculation. After the third day of edging I like to end the 20 minute session by forcing myself to cum. Is that counterproductive to the edging or no?Start, May '17: BPEL 7.2" x MSEG 5.5"
December '17: BPEL 8.1" x MSEG 5.9"
February '18: BPEL 8.2" x MSEG 5.75"
Long-term goal: BPEL 8.5" x MSEG 6.25"
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I do feel I can last longer thanks to edging. I do not think it was only edging. I took a holistic approach, doing daily yoga, kegel/reverse kegels, etc.
But I definitely have made major improvements to how long I can last. I used to be in the 1~5 minute range foe PIV sex. Now I regularly go 15~20 minutes. And can do 30 minutes.[/QUOTE]
yes, i also do squats, hindi squats,pelvic streches. I feel that helps and running or cycling when i did it in the passed i notice it help last longer, and lots of people say it as worked for them to. im gonna give a try to.
30min in real sex??
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Originally posted by greatmaster View Postyes, i also do squats, hindi squats,pelvic streches. I feel that helps and running or cycling when i did it in the passed i notice it help last longer, and lots of people say it as worked for them to. im gonna give a try to.
30min in real sex??
A couple of times in the last few months it was about 30 mins (I always note the time we start and finish so that I know how I am doing) from start to orgasm. Not all straight up thrusting, but mixed between thrusting, teasing, deep penetration, etc.03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
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12/2019 EL: +2.2 MEG: +1 <Able to last 60+ mins PIV>
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ok, man nice explanation.
Im gonna be honest , my goal is to keep trhusting as long as i want, and not having to change positions all the time.
Look im gonna share someting i tried.
i saw a post about desentitizing the head of the penis, and a guy said he can last 50 min in sex and it was only able in the begging to go for 7min. What he did was just with a pieace of cloth t-shirt or something, he rubbed the head of the penis for 5 min every day, i think in weeks he started to see great results.
Man one night i tried for maybe 30 mints rubing with my t-shirt, erect or non erect its ok, the thing is going to be very fuc*** intense belive me. I did it, and i the next morning i could not ejaculate, i was trying so hard, but nothing, and i was with a nice erection. i even did thrusting very fast and i could feel pleasure but not cuming. i was amazed.
The only thing that made-me no continue to repeat this, was because it was so intense that night, that i was sweating and could no sleeep well, because i just wanted to have sex, i was really agitated. I must try it, today i did it again and im going to do it every day and see what happens.
Belive i t was the only thing that had a quick result, and i was very amazed.
If you need help on how to do it, tell me and i will try to explain the best way for me, that is really intense.
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