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    Hi all
    Im new to the forum, having been lurking about trying to pick up some pe tips. Only recently i started to do some stretching being as i am i went about it with enthusiasm and vigour. And i think i might have injured myself, i say that because my penis looks and feels different when i hold it in my hand.
    I'd heard of jelqs through the years, and tried doing them on a few occasions, but because its commonly thought pe exercise doesnt work, i never carried on doing it.

    For whatever reason i recently decided it might work and started doing some stretching. Since beginning ive made some modest gains. I began at around 7.0 ins..maybe a little more or a little less. Butvsince i started my penis looks to be a bit longer and everso slightly fatter.

    Previously if i really stretched my penis and pushed the ruler into my pubic bone i could measure about 7.0. But since starting the stretching i can get a measurement 7.0 fairly easily, using the bone pressed method. It i push more firmly, i get approx 19cms. Iff i round up to the nearest centimter i think it thich i think is just a touch short of 7.5 inchs.
    My penis also seems longer erect than when taking a stretched measurement, but its difficult to get a true measurement with a ruler as i have a slight bend upward, so cant get it totally straight, and also maintain a full erection.

    By the way ive a found a good tip for measuring, which i can share at some point if eople are interested

    I feel very pleased with these gains which have come quickly, but unfortunately they appear to have come at a cost.
    I seem to have stretched my scrotum, which when im not sexually aroused cause the testicles to hang lower, some might think that a good thing, but i feel embarrassed. My partner was fondling them the other day, and i felt very uncomfortable and embarassed. I thought she would notice, and so was glad when she stopped, luckily she didn't seem to notice.

    The skin on my penis shaft has become wrinkled. Its not really noticeable when the foreskin is pulled down but when the head is exposed it becomes very wrinkled, unless its not so small and shrivelled (unfortunately ive always been a grower rather than a shower).

    I also noticed that when the foreskin is pulled over the glans, it has a bit extra skin. Im not sure, this might be improving a little, but im worried someone will notice i.e. my partner, or people in the gym when i take a shower. Im worried people will notice and perhaps say something. Im also thinking i could become circumsed to solve this problem if neccesary.

    Ive also caused ridges to come up on both sides of my penis shaft, this happened when i performed some type of home made jelquing motion on the spur of the moment, and compressed my erect penis together by squeezing when it was virtually erect.

    The two veins running along the top of my shaft have become fairly prominent, and other veins i hadnt previously noticed can be seen sometimes. My shaft also seems to have taken on a slightly darker hue.

    One of the most noticeable things, causing concern is the feel of my penis. Most of the time it remains totally floppy, like its dead almost. I think (im not certain about yhis) its become a little bit heavier in my hand, when its limp, and its fairly diificult to achieve an erection through manual stimulation.

    Saying that, i can still awaken with decent morning wood. And if i see something visually stimulating i get a good erection allowing me to masturbate. If i stop or become distracted by doing something else it fairly quickly becomes less erect. But i can carry on.

    I can orgasm very strongly with a very firm erection. Also when my penis is erect, the ridges on the sides, i described above arent noticeable, and the wrinkles are gone. This is all great and reassuring.

    there is a key issue i havent yet mentioned, which is that in the last two years, as a 40 something year old i was diagnosed with adhd. Ive been prescribed methylphenidate/ritalin. Ive been taking it around 4-6 months still working with the consultant to get right balance of medication.

    How this medication relates to this issue is that one of the side effects has been an increase in maturbation, assised by the strong focus methylphenidate can give. So i can masturbate for as many hours i want, and not orgasm, its a form of edging as i could easily orgasm with some effort, but also can choose not to, and continue masturbating.

    When i actually decide to Orgasm, it happens very powerfully, and the orgasm can go on for minutes, perhaps up to 10 or more minutes. I wont go into further detail, but its very pleasurable, and compulsive. I can also continue, a bit later, if i get aroused by something.

    Regrettably ive stopped doing any PE exercises, which im disapounted about. and i fear ill be left with a wrinkled and sagging genitalia, along with erectile disfunction.

    I undrrstand methylphenidate is very close chemically to cocaine, which might explain the maturbatory effects. Weirdly i can continue to masturbate if i lose the erection, and still orgasm.this has happened a few times

    Anyway. Im not sure if these extended masturbation sessions, most days of the week, along with these extended periods of orgasm, and the stretching have together caused my problem.

    I dont knoe if its all in my head, but my penis doesn't for the most part feel like my own, rather something just attached to me, which someyimes gets an erection. There are a few more, details about this, but theyre not relevant at this time.

    I've rested my penis today from any exertions, and found it quite challenging. I did briefly look at some porn on the net (to reassure myself that it still works than anything else),and felt some stirrings. But i was glad not to give in.

    I apologise for the overly lengthy first post, its just that i feel quite concerned about things, and wanted to give a fairly comprehensive description of what has happend in the hope someone might be able to make some suggestions, or if they have been through (and hopefullly recovered from) a simillar thing
    I hope i haven't put this topic in the wtong section, so feel free to move it if neccesary

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    Thank you for sharing that !
    It seems that moderation, self discipline, perseverance, and staying objective can help "big time".

    Now if we can just bottle all that !

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    • #3
      Post routine.


      Who the fuck gives a shit if your flaccid dick, looks wrinkly and weird. Thats what penises are

      But i have also worried about "erectile dysfunction", what your describing isnt really ED because you can still get hard, have sex, cum etc. I worried about my dick getting big and the amount of blood to fill it not keeping up.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by icemocha View Post
        Post routine.

        Who the fuck gives a shit if your flaccid dick, looks wrinkly and weird. Thats what penises are
        Ok, first, language please. No need for inappropriate language.
        And BeeMCee is sharing his feelings. Obviously he cares about how his flaccid looks. Many guys do, take a moment and look around the forum and use a little empathy.

        Originally posted by icemocha View Post
        But i have also worried about "erectile dysfunction", what your describing isnt really ED because you can still get hard, have sex, cum etc. I worried about my dick getting big and the amount of blood to fill it not keeping up.
        Being able to get hard and have sex does not discount erectile dysfunction (ED). Most men experience episodes of ED, often due to stress or other related problems. If it happens that you want to have sex and can't get it up, then that is considered ED. Even if it worked the day before, we do not discount it.

        I can see that you may have your own concerns, that is fine. You want to grow yours, get big, etc. But we can still support and help others.
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        • #5
          BeeMCee,

          Are you making sure to retract your skin away from the glans and towards the base of your penis before setting your grip for your stretches?
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          • #6
            I hadn't initially as I wanted a good grip, but having realised things were getting stretched. I had started to pull the skin further down from the glans, just so the skin had some room for the actually penis ligaments to be stretched without harming the skin, but Id found it very difficult to get a good grip, it kept slipping through my fingers

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            • #7
              Originally posted by BeeMCee View Post
              I hadn't initially as I wanted a good grip, but having realised things were getting stretched. I had started to pull the skin further down from the glans, just so the skin had some room for the actually penis ligaments to be stretched without harming the skin, but Id found it very difficult to get a good grip, it kept slipping through my fingers
              Retract the skin, then use a small towel to pad and enhance your grip.
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              • #8
                Originally posted by Big Al View Post
                BeeMCee,

                Are you making sure to retract your skin away from the glans and towards the base of your penis before setting your grip for your stretches?
                Originally posted by Big Al View Post
                Retract the skin, then use a small towel to pad and enhance your grip.

                Oh damn okay, i've been streching with skin over the glands. Would have never though of the towel, because them glands are sensitive af. Al will my glands eventually get more used to full on contact?



                Yeah i was a bit over zealous in my reply. Let me try again.
                Penises are generally gross, and wrinkely looking. I dont think more skin is going to be a deal breaker for anyone but you.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by icemocha View Post
                  Oh damn okay, i've been streching with skin over the glands. Would have never though of the towel, because them glands are sensitive af. Al will my glands eventually get more used to full on contact?

                  Yeah i was a bit over zealous in my reply. Let me try again.
                  Penises are generally gross, and wrinkely looking. I dont think more skin is going to be a deal breaker for anyone but you.
                  You really should be attempting to avoid involving the glans in your stretches.
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Big Al View Post
                    You really should be attempting to avoid involving the glans in your stretches.
                    i am confused AL.

                    The glands are basically the start or the widest part of the mushroom head right? I usually grab it just under the mushroom. I tired this in the shower today, rolling back the forskin, ok grip under the glands/mushroom, so that grip pressure is actually on the shaft, but there was contact with the fingers and bottom of the glands which was slightly uncomfortable.

                    Is that right?

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by icemocha View Post
                      i am confused AL.

                      The glands are basically the start or the widest part of the mushroom head right? I usually grab it just under the mushroom. I tired this in the shower today, rolling back the forskin, ok grip under the glands/mushroom, so that grip pressure is actually on the shaft, but there was contact with the fingers and bottom of the glands which was slightly uncomfortable.

                      Is that right?
                      The glans is another name for the head of the penis. Set up your grip to allow a small space in between the glans and your hands during the active part of the stretch.
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                      • #12
                        Al such a money post, I was able to do this yesterday out of the shower, on the stretches.

                        I would like to aplogise to BeeMCee, I was super hasty in my response.
                        I am uncut and i never realised the amount of skin that i have over my glands.


                        I can't seem to jelq qith my foreskin rolled back over the head/glands. When the jelq reaches the top of my shaft, my foreskin rolls over the head. Now i was pulling it back down with the bottom hand, but i also dont know if this is going to pull blood back down too. Erection level has an effect too, i can maintain a 80%+ erection with near constant jerking it off. But if i am 80%+ erect, then my forskin stays back behind the head.

                        Im trying to jelq this way all the time, but when im around 50% or something i just jelq with foreskin over head. Is this still okay?

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by icemocha View Post
                          Al such a money post, I was able to do this yesterday out of the shower, on the stretches.

                          I would like to aplogise to BeeMCee, I was super hasty in my response.
                          I am uncut and i never realised the amount of skin that i have over my glands.


                          I can't seem to jelq qith my foreskin rolled back over the head/glands. When the jelq reaches the top of my shaft, my foreskin rolls over the head. Now i was pulling it back down with the bottom hand, but i also dont know if this is going to pull blood back down too. Erection level has an effect too, i can maintain a 80%+ erection with near constant jerking it off. But if i am 80%+ erect, then my forskin stays back behind the head.

                          Im trying to jelq this way all the time, but when im around 50% or something i just jelq with foreskin over head. Is this still okay?
                          Are you able to retract the skin as you jelq with the nonstroking hand? If not, then using a generous amount of lube on both sides of the foreskin would reduce the friction enough so any direct impact on the foreskin would be negligible.
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                          • #14
                            Hey AL thanks again.

                            For some reason today, it was all good. I was even jelqing at 50% and my skin stayed back behind the head. I did use more lube that usual, and started by pulling the skin back more, i also think because i didnt stretch the skin when i was stretching that helped.

                            Its odd during jelqing, it looks more pronunced/more blood to the head when the skin is over the head. Skin over the head, it looks like i can see a vein popping at the end of the jelq, but skin under, just i cant really tell, the head is p smooth. But i think its working all the same

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by icemocha View Post
                              Hey AL thanks again.
                              Glad to help- and also glad to hear your session went well!
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