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Before I begin I'd like to say that, first, I'm typing this on mobile so I apologize for any mistakes, second, I have no doubt people have asked some of the questions I will raise and I'm not unfamiliar with the search engine, I just prefer to ask things my own way and get fresh answers from new eyes. I apologize to those of you who have likely have seen the same questions for years. Finally I'd like to apologize for the size of thos post but I'd really appreciate it if you could take the time to read it and help me out. I just wanted to get everything out here.
Ok, I'llstart with a brief intro. I first heard about PE a few years back shortly after I finished school. I read into it a bit and heard a lot of contradictory info and never really committed to it. I have pretty bad body dysmorphia so even though my starting stats are supposedly above average I've always had severe anxiety about the whole thing. Even though I have other things going for me, this has severely interfered with my confidence and it will usually get in the way of any type of hookup or relationship. I never bring up my insecurities I simply find a way to botch the whole thing before it progress farther due to an intense anxiety/fear of feeling inferior or inadequate. I'm 6 bpel and 5 for girth, give or take a little on both depending on the day and situation. I really don't care about biological average to be honest. The fact remains that a large number of people's first exposure to sex is porn and their friends, classmates comments, etc and given the tendency for men to inflate their size, this leads to most who are around average feeling small by comparison, especially when coupled with something like bdd.
So with all that said I thought I should stop feeling sorry for myself and at least make an attempt to improve things and see if there's anything to PE. That's the mentality that lead to me posting this.
My first question has to do with something odd I've noticed just browsing the community. I don't mean to offend, I'm just naturally skeptical by nature so make of this what you will. I find it odd that a large portion of those who post on the forums have starting stats well above the reported average size. I've seen numerous claims of starting stats in the high 7 even some pushing 8. Now I'm aware that there are certainly men this size and they are not immune to societal pressure or the desire to be more than what they are, but it makes me more than a little suspicious to come to a PE site and find that a number of the men are starting well above the reported average and this in turn makes me question the validity of their other claims. I would say it's not an extreme leap to assume that larger men would notice they have an extra inch or two and likely receive comments from time to time. One would assume that men on the lower end of average and below would make up the majority of this sites population. Now I'm aware that it may be these other members exist and are simply too embarrassed by their starting stats to post them, due to reasons I mentioned, or perhaps some men inflate their stats a bit to something they are more comfortable with? I'd just like to hear some opinions on this. And again, this isn't meant to offend or write this off as a scam. It's simply something I cant help but notice and I'd like input. This would essentially be the equivalent of going to a site that claims drastic changes in height are possible and finding the majority of forum users started out at 6 3 rather than below or simply right at the average. All one needs to do is look into some of the drastic surgical options available for things like height to see that the people getting these procedures are usually below average, often to a large degree, and while I'm not suggesting PE is near as extreme or risky as the above mentioned procedure, I still would think similar logic would apply when it comes to those drawn to this site.
Second question is a lot more basic and has been asked before in different ways. Assuming all this is legit and this works, what is the typical size increase one could expect within a year or two? I'm aware everyone is different but I was curious if anyone had charted the typical rate of growth. My min goal would be 7.5bpel and probably 6girth. My more extreme goal would be somewhere around 8.5 to 9 bpel and 7 or so girth. Are these unrealistic given your experience or is it simply a matter of time and effort? Just to be clear I wouldn't need to reach the goal within two years. I was simply curious where I could reasonably expect to be within that timeframe.
Third question has to do with the best resources to use. Obviously I'll read over all of the stickied info and recommended starting methods, etc, but are there any other resources you guys would recommend that are not stickied or as well known.
Ok, I'llstart with a brief intro. I first heard about PE a few years back shortly after I finished school. I read into it a bit and heard a lot of contradictory info and never really committed to it. I have pretty bad body dysmorphia so even though my starting stats are supposedly above average I've always had severe anxiety about the whole thing. Even though I have other things going for me, this has severely interfered with my confidence and it will usually get in the way of any type of hookup or relationship. I never bring up my insecurities I simply find a way to botch the whole thing before it progress farther due to an intense anxiety/fear of feeling inferior or inadequate. I'm 6 bpel and 5 for girth, give or take a little on both depending on the day and situation. I really don't care about biological average to be honest. The fact remains that a large number of people's first exposure to sex is porn and their friends, classmates comments, etc and given the tendency for men to inflate their size, this leads to most who are around average feeling small by comparison, especially when coupled with something like bdd.
So with all that said I thought I should stop feeling sorry for myself and at least make an attempt to improve things and see if there's anything to PE. That's the mentality that lead to me posting this.
My first question has to do with something odd I've noticed just browsing the community. I don't mean to offend, I'm just naturally skeptical by nature so make of this what you will. I find it odd that a large portion of those who post on the forums have starting stats well above the reported average size. I've seen numerous claims of starting stats in the high 7 even some pushing 8. Now I'm aware that there are certainly men this size and they are not immune to societal pressure or the desire to be more than what they are, but it makes me more than a little suspicious to come to a PE site and find that a number of the men are starting well above the reported average and this in turn makes me question the validity of their other claims. I would say it's not an extreme leap to assume that larger men would notice they have an extra inch or two and likely receive comments from time to time. One would assume that men on the lower end of average and below would make up the majority of this sites population. Now I'm aware that it may be these other members exist and are simply too embarrassed by their starting stats to post them, due to reasons I mentioned, or perhaps some men inflate their stats a bit to something they are more comfortable with? I'd just like to hear some opinions on this. And again, this isn't meant to offend or write this off as a scam. It's simply something I cant help but notice and I'd like input. This would essentially be the equivalent of going to a site that claims drastic changes in height are possible and finding the majority of forum users started out at 6 3 rather than below or simply right at the average. All one needs to do is look into some of the drastic surgical options available for things like height to see that the people getting these procedures are usually below average, often to a large degree, and while I'm not suggesting PE is near as extreme or risky as the above mentioned procedure, I still would think similar logic would apply when it comes to those drawn to this site.
Second question is a lot more basic and has been asked before in different ways. Assuming all this is legit and this works, what is the typical size increase one could expect within a year or two? I'm aware everyone is different but I was curious if anyone had charted the typical rate of growth. My min goal would be 7.5bpel and probably 6girth. My more extreme goal would be somewhere around 8.5 to 9 bpel and 7 or so girth. Are these unrealistic given your experience or is it simply a matter of time and effort? Just to be clear I wouldn't need to reach the goal within two years. I was simply curious where I could reasonably expect to be within that timeframe.
Third question has to do with the best resources to use. Obviously I'll read over all of the stickied info and recommended starting methods, etc, but are there any other resources you guys would recommend that are not stickied or as well known.
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