Why does everyone ask if Masturbation is bad, and yet doesnt ask if Sex is?

[Dea7h7rap 101]

I just dont understand this. There is probably 3-4 threads a week asking if masturbation is bad, and yet no one asks if sex is. If you ejaculate while masturbating, and you ejaculate while having sex, isnt that the exact same thing? Why would one be bad and one be good? Is it because masturbation usually occurs more frequently than sex or what?

[stleurofreak]

Idk, frequent masturbation can cause your penis to start curving due to the motion of it. From what I know...

[Pegasus]

It was an old time puesdo religous thing that masturbation was bad , it is slowly leaving our culture.

[TINKERBELL]

Sex has more variables..where as masturbation tends to have a formula that works for you ..when a person know what works for them when masturbating it can lead to bad habits or lazy cum factors.. you can get into a set way of getting off.. you know the grip the speed the tension…I am guessing a your cock in a pussy feels different to your cock in your hand… if you masturbate compulsively or too frequently or solely rely on it to get off , it can create issues for when you do get sex…because your penis gets use to the manual sensation of your hand
As far as PE workouts and masturbation I guess some of the exercises are similar in the ‘handling’ .. so the amount of ‘hand time’ you are giving your penis could possibly be a concern or cause problems .. maybe that’s why people ask about masturbation and not sex… I am only guessing cuz I don’t have a penis

[WhiteCloudz]

the sexual union between a man and a woman is a more positive event than masturbation....it is an exchange of energies,the ying and the yang which can be very healthy for both involved...masturbation is alrite as long as it doesnt become negative or addictive and most of the questions on this site refer to people either being addicted to porn or masturbating all the time due to a lack of a partner or having a sexual imbalance...now,if a man is unhealthy it is destuctive to his health to ejaculate all the time whether he has sex or masturbates,but if the man is in reasonable health he can engage in sexual activities to a certain extent....it is best though that he learns to control the process of ejaculation and becomes a multi-orgasmic male...every man has the opportunity to do this if he will take the time to practice some form of meditation,tantra,tai chi,yoga or deep breathing exercises that will open the gates for him to another world...women are already multi-orgasmic and dont have to worry about losing or controlling the seed....but man carrys this precious seed the sperm energy that has the ability to create life itself...but all too often he laughs it off and continues to waste the seed and spend all his sexual energy until he becomes ill and wonders how it has come to this...early on in life masturbation is an obvious thing to do but when man gets older and continues the do so without any balance he will run into many problems...

[rbi99]

Big difference between the two is the length of time your unit is erect. You're horny, wife or gf is not around, you grab your bad boy and probably stroke it at the same pace for a minute and you are done. Making love to your partner takes so much longer, your unit goes through different stages of erection hardness, your partner is using her mouth and hands at different speeds and times, you are actually getting some exercise, and at least some of the stuff whitecloudz said!!

[MrBigDick]

Masturbation can put you into a rut where sex with an actual partner is by far so much better................the feeling of her mouth or pussy around your shaft is unlike any feeling putting your dick in your hand can give you.

[rbi99]

Dea's point I think isn't how each feels, or any of the ying yang stuff, but more of why is one considered at least a partial hindrance regarding PE gains (masturbation), and the other isn't (sex).

[Dea7h7rap 101]

Honestly I think everyone shouldnt masturbate really at all. If you look at the negatives it gives you - lots of times premature ejaculation occurs from it, ED can occur from it combined with porn, it can hinder gains, it can become addictive and get in the way of an actual relationship, ect ect.. I think it just really shouldnt be done. The negatives IMO highly outweigh the positives.

[Batwoman]

Masturbation is perfectly normal and in moderation it is a good thing. If you are not having sex quite regularly, then I think it is more than just fun -- it is essential for good health and remaining sexually fit.
Use it or lose it, as they say.
BUT like so many things, masturbation is best done in moderation.
Sex with a real live partner is almost always better!