What makes you PE?

**jayhawk11** · 03-14-2009

Originally Posted by Scipio

A simple desire to pack more gun than the average guy.

Same here my friend. Simply to be above average.

**PEPE** · 03-15-2009

I just got out of a long relationship... And like a lot of guys here, I've never had any complaints, but I've also never had any compliments. I want the compliments. The current girlfriend also likes it really deep, and I can only hit her spots in certain positions... I'd like to be able to hit her spots at any time and with a little more ease. Plus, I've probably got deep-seated feelings of insecurity stemming from the fact that I got into porn videos at the age of... 12? (hurray for growing up in the internet age) - I had an older brother and found his stash. These feelings make me think when my current gf says she loves my dick that she's lying. I just know I can do better / be better, and I want to be there.

**HumbleGains** · 03-16-2009

i think watching too much porn did it for me. i'm black and i now think it is expected of me to have a huge penis. i know that may sound dumb, but i feel like i have to live up to the myth. and hope pe will give me more confidence with women. i'm 22 by the way.

**mr.8and1/2** · 08-20-2009

It's this one girl that I'm really attracted to that has turned me back onto PE.

I found out about PE a several months back and was curious about it, I have always felt that my penis was just a little bit shorter then average and would not be sexually satisfying to a partner. I started doing PE on an irregular basis until I dropped it and put it on the back burner as something to do when I had the time, energy, and the real desire to rigorously commit to it.

Then after I met this girl a couple of months ago I've been focused on her to the extent that my masturbation frequency has dropped and I'm commited to pursuing her. She is obviously also attracted to me, otherwise I never would have been inspired to come back here today.

It was one conversation that the two of us had that has me feeling inadequate. We were talking about our sex lives and she informed me that the biggest dick she's "played" with was 8.5''. I'm pretty close to being exactly 6'', maybe a couple of millimetres larger, but I round it down to six. That's the reason that my username is "Mr.8 and 1/2". Not because I'm that size, but because penis envy has made me want to catch up to him.

No one has to feel sorry for me and tell me that my six incher is average and able to satisfy a woman. I know that. And not only do I know that, she does as well. She told me that my six inch dick was a good size and was "yummy".

So I'm not doing this for her, I'm doing this for me. So don't cry foul.

If what the two of us have goes downhill, I'll still be commited to doing PE.

**Loftus** · 08-20-2009

why not do it? thats my reason, when i become sexually active i want to maximize the pleasure as much as possible. Its the same concept as why do you work out with weights for a sport. And besides, having a bigger dick gives you more confidence.

**John12** · 04-29-2010

Ok so I just stumbled onto this site today actually, or yesterday, its past midnight. I've been sifting through the internet trying to avoid getting sucked into what everyone knows is a scam. Glad I found this site, at least I can give it a shot.

Yeah, this is not a new obsessions,in fact, it comes and goes pretty regularly and it may be unhealthy. But ppl seem to identify,from what I've read I've been pretty lucky(girls can be bitches). My gf and I have great sex,(to give her credit, awesome sex) and Ive never had any complaints, in fact, much the opposite, with all my partners. Even if I dont have the largest cock, I'm fairly proud of my kind of ridiculous,( orgasm as much and when I want really) stamina, and lovemaking/fucking in general, I love to tire my partner out and dont feel satisfied unless they orgasm a few times.

While getting her off is no pb but sometimes I wonder if its because she's so wonderfully tight. You watch porn and you wonder...the fuck would an average dick do with those girls? I can workout my body, I can workout my mind, the hell not my dick?
Im 6n bit, and 4.8 so easily good enough, but yeah, the itch is there. Would I get her off faster, would multiple orgasms be easier to give? Just the idea of being able to stretch her out a lil more and have her gasp in surprise is maddeningly erotic. Everyone knows its not what makes you an awesome fuck, but sometimes I wonder if, with a bigger dick, some things would be taken to a dif level(ei; dirty talk and such), I hate to think that that would be another guys job. Any girl thats good in bed loves dick like a guy loves pussy or a nice pair of breasts, there's no denying it.

Working at it really, is almost just as good as getting there.

**Canvas514** · 05-07-2010

For me, I always thought, "If my 6" gives me this much pleasure, how much more will a bigger one give me?"
I also guess the competitive nature of me wants a nice flacid hang in the gym. I want to be bigger than the next guy.
And, while there have been no complaints, I want the compliments when I'm with a partner.

**Wang McDiddledong** · 05-07-2010

I'm doin' it because knowing that my dong is reaaally big would make my ego go berserk. I'd feel like I could move mountains!

My long-term goal is to be 9x6, the classic, "golden" so to say, proportion

**Dibls** · 07-21-2010

I started experiencing ED around 16-17 years old. There may be multiple reasons, but I assume it was partly due to excessive masturbation (at one point I was masturbating 4-10 times daily). It had become an addiction. I also believe there were psychological factors involved. I had become so ashamed of my erections, due to my mother's fear and condemnation of sexuality, that I began mentally relaxing my penis when it started becoming hard to avoid becoming erect. After a while I couldn't get hard even when I wanted to...

I have been with 4 girls, one of which was not disappointed in my inadequate erections. The first girl I ever had sex with stopped me a few minutes into it and left. The next girl I was with had sex with me a few times, and then continued to date me, but started avoiding having sex with me. The girl I was most recently with was obviously disappointed, and on some occasions would stop me and tell me I wasn't doing anything for her. We've talked about it, and she says I'm just not hard enough, most of the time, to get her off.

The one girl who didn't complain had pretty low self esteem and abandonment issues. I think she just didn't say anything bad about the sex we had because she didn't want to hurt my feelings because she was afraid I would leave her. She did a lot of things just to try to make me stay with her. You know, the desperate/needy type.

I have looked into PE in the past, and even started doing exercises, just to give up a few weeks later.
I recently joined because the girl I have been with, most recently, is everything I want in a girlfriend, and I want to have good sex with her, so we can have the complete package together. She seems willing to stay with me in spite of our sex, but has said she would like me to get better in that department (don't know if that's a bad thing or not; some people tell me if she really loved me it wouldn't matter...)

**larrypinball** · 07-21-2010

Originally Posted by Dibls

... She seems willing to stay with me in spite of our sex, but has said she would like me to get better in that department (don't know if that's a bad thing or not; some people tell me if she really loved me it wouldn't matter...)

My personal opinion is that what "some people" tell you is complete bullshit; sex matters - always and especially in a healthy, caring and loving relationship! And I think it's wonderful of her to be able and tell you that. Be grateful knowing that you are in the absolute best place possible for improving yourself in that department. Be sure to take care, do your research here on the site and let us know how you progress. Best of luck!