Can't get an erection in the club

[tommygunz Member Find all posts View Profile Close tommygunz]

Hey, when I'm by myself I get an erection an when I'm with a girl I got an erection. For some reason when I'm getting danced on in the club my piece won't rise though. If I don't eat 3 meals a day consistently will that effect my wood? I eat when I can but I'm sure I get under 2000 calories a day. What are some ways to achieve "easier" erections? Edging didn't work for me. It gave me blue balls but my erection still suffered.

[Raider Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Raider]

You get an erection when you're by yourself and not when you're with other women? hmmm....do you get one when you're with the dudes? LOL

Did you ejaculate after edging?

Drink a lot of water and I think green tea also helps. Plus I here eating bananas may increase blood flow.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Dude, I only get half chubbies during lap dances and don't get hard at strip clubs. They're dumb, that's why you don't.

[JonasKay Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JonasKay]

Girls complain ALL THE TIME about guys who get hard at clubs and then dance with them. They HATE it...especially if it's dark and they have no clue what the guy looks like. Seriously dude, I have NEVER heard a girl say, "Oh my God, he can't get hard so I don't want to dance with him."

Now if you pull her into a hallway or alley to make-out....that's a different story entirely.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

Don't worry, both my heads become numb when I'm in a stupid place like a club.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

I have to focus to get up in that situation. I hate the club...


Girls generally don't want to FEEL it when you FIRST start with them. it's gross... But when they're backing it up and rubbing it on you, they want to feel it grow on them. That's the difference. Stupid, and subtle, but a big difference. the booty dance is supposed to get you hard.


I hate the clubs though so I don't have a bunch of experience besides a few times.

[Beef Supreme Member Find all posts View Profile Close Beef Supreme]

Your "little" friend got stage fright. Just move to a nice and quiet spot and you will probably get an erection. Hope this helped.

[wifedominator Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wifedominator]

I still have to wear tighty-whities because i get hard at the drop of a hat. I clubbed professionally (meaning got drunk and wooed the ladies 4 times a week) for for like 6 years and never got a hard on in the club even though I would have liked to many times. Stimmies, alcohol, loud music, and a fast pumping heart don't make for a woody I guess.

[DiminutiveDong Member Find all posts View Profile Close DiminutiveDong]

Man, I have the opposite problem. One time a girl even said to be 'gee it's been a long time?' and another was like 'oooh busted.'.

I find it embarrassing TO get one honestly.

[tommygunz Member Find all posts View Profile Close tommygunz]

Well the clubs I go to the girls dance to see exactly how big you are. If I could get all the way hard I know I'd be gettin pussy easily, im 7.7X6 lol. It be random man, some girls it get half. Some all the way (rarely) others it wont even move. The girls I got all the way big on I ended up smashin so I'm trying to make that more consistent.

[morebigger Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close morebigger]

Well at first I had that same problem.I started doing towel raise now just setting at my desk i'm like a tree!

[tommygunz Member Find all posts View Profile Close tommygunz]

Well at first I had that same problem.I started doing towel raise now just setting at my desk i'm like a tree!

How long did it take you to get like this? I REALLY need a solution. When I was younger I didn't have this problem. It's so annoying cuz I know if I could get hard I could have any girl I want...but its random. I recently started working back out so I'm hoping that will help me.

[morebigger Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close morebigger]

I was in a club one night and notice that 3 girls was dancing on me and nothing.So I started doing them in the moring before work 3 sets of 20 rep's and after work I do P90X and PE and last thing I do is 3 sets of 20 towel raise 3 or 4 times out the week.