Edging 101

[Saxmachine]

Hi KP,

I'm partially circumcised, ie I have some foreskin that covers only the corona of my penis. I've lubed up and tried edging as you described a couple of times (stroking from the base up, but not to the frenulum) but after 30 minutes I usually come no closer to cumming than when I started. I can maintain the erection the whole time, but after that long I give up and start full stroking and I can get close to cumming and then back off multiple times. But I feel like I'm missing something here. I mean shouldn't just stroking without touching my frenulum get me off? It seems it doesn't or at least not after 30 mins. Any advice?

Thanks

[Pegasus]

Hi KP,

I'm partially circumcised, ie I have some foreskin that covers only the corona of my penis. I've lubed up and tried edging as you described a couple of times (stroking from the base up, but not to the frenulum) but after 30 minutes I usually come no closer to cumming than when I started. I can maintain the erection the whole time, but after that long I give up and start full stroking and I can get close to cumming and then back off multiple times. But I feel like I'm missing something here. I mean shouldn't just stroking without touching my frenulum get me off? It seems it doesn't or at least not after 30 mins. Any advice?

Thanks

I know you asked Kp, but I have 2 cents worth to put in. You all, can slap me around afterwards.

Many years ago(30?) just by myself ,I discovered I could wank for an extended period ,by geting close to the ponr and backing off.
After some time doing this ,I found I could go through the ponr and have dry orgasms. Now ,as there was no one around to tell me there was rules, I didn't follow any. So there I was quite happily stringing together multi dry orgasms, I found when I was with a girl I could go as long as I wanted and have many orgasms. During this period my dick also grew ,well I had never heard of pe ,so I figured I was just a late bloomer. Hell I touched my dick and balls all over as I pleased, got to my first orgasm as quick as I liked, came or not at the end as I pleased. Did I have a good time -hell yes, did I get increased sex control -hell yes, did my dick grow from it-well I now believe it did.
Fast forward to the recent times. I discover pe, while reading the forums I discover what I was doing is called edging. But I have beeen doing it all wrong these last 30 odd years. I did it standing , siting, laying, I touched my dick all wrong and I didn't relax my eyelids. Then some people get all huffy and upset when I question the necessary of these rules. Kp himself says he breaks them regularly. Should they be thought of as a guideline only? Perhaps what I am doing should have another name?

To me it is the result that counts. If these rules help people get to the result, then they have some purpose. Don't get me wrong ,they may be very helpfull to many people. But perhaps we should look at how helpfull they are in individual cases?

[Saxmachine]

Point taken. Thanks Pegasus!

[Pegasus]

You are very welcome.
I hope to have added to the debate, in the general sense also.

[kingpole]

I have combined ballooning, tantric masturbation and edging doing PE at the same time. I even commited the ultimate sin i mixe Coke with Pepsi. I agree with Pegesus. Rules are thier as guide lines. If you break these rules you will not get arrested.

[nipseyhussle]

Lack of ejaculation causes periliess health issues, heart disease, prostate issues, shortens your life span according to Doctor Oz Oprahs personal doctor whos is a renouned cardiologist.
the premiss that ejaculation makes you weak and and is a sin is religious nonsense. an adult male and female should have a minimum of 4 orgasms per week.

shit i aim at ejaculate atleast 4times a day :O

[Pegasus]

Heh Nipsey did you see some of yourself in my post here?

[pe_ZEN]

You know the whole Tantric philosophy was aimed at "seed retention" - under the belief that releasing your seed is releasing your vital energy. Keeping this vital energy within, increasing and circulating leads to spiritual growth. The Taoist masters could last forEVER and had huge dicks, and PC muscles were like biceps...

[pe_ZEN]

they were the Inventors of P.E.!!

[Pegasus]

Well I am here for penis growth, not spiritual growth.
While the term "tantric" to refer to male multi orgasm (MMo) is often misused, the taoist did help popularise mmo so it is understandable.
If you read post 192 earlier in this thread, you will see I did edging and thus pe, independent of any influnce when I was young.
I am not the only member to do this; new member nipsey for instance talks of a similar experience. It is hard to believe this has not happened throught history. So cavemen probably did some form of pe.

Personally I like my pe without myth and mystic teachings which have nothing to do with mmo or geting a bigger dick.

PS I don't think seed retention is even healthy.