Edging 101

[GTO]

Been reading a a lot about edging and it's obvious it has great benefits in bed (I'm sure my lady will appreciate it). But what benefits, if any, does it have for PE?

[bullsharktestosterone]

I think I've been doing it wrong. I just edged for 50 minutes while watching porn, but I guess I got to the PONR and couldn't prevent it. Just to clarify: Is edging, "I'm jerking off for as long as I can while not ejaculating," or is it, "I'm just stroking the shaft for as long as possible to maintain an erection and keep the tissues expanding for a prolonged period."

I think my version of edging is detrimental because more often than not I am ejaculating, I can't seem to help it.

[EQKing]

I think I've been doing it wrong. I just edged for 50 minutes while watching porn, but I guess I got to the PONR and couldn't prevent it. Just to clarify: Is edging, "I'm jerking off for as long as I can while not ejaculating," or is it, "I'm just stroking the shaft for as long as possible to maintain an erection and keep the tissues expanding for a prolonged period."

I think my version of edging is detrimental because more often than not I am ejaculating, I can't seem to help it.

It's both.Just stop before reaching the PONR.

[Bringer]

I can use imagination or porn and fully beat my cock like it owes me money for hours if wanted to. I only reach the PONR if I choose to. And contrary to what I have read about kegels/reverse kegels etc. I use none of these to achieve this. Actually the opposite. I fully relax all the involuntary spasm that you feel when it starts to feel good. Don't get me wrong it still feels good, just in a controlled manner. Now I am looking at this from a stamina point of view as size gains will come or they won't, thinking about it won't change the science behind it. Also, I would like to say I have no EQ or ED issues as I can also beat my cock and make it spit in minutes if I choose to do so.

So my question is - Is it possible that I'm actually controlling the smooth muscle in all the regions that makes you cum/not cum? Is there any possible explanation for this? To clarify, I am not pushing/pulling/squeezing/holding back...I am going full force the whole time.

[hopefulgainer]

I am a beginner and I have recently pledged not to masturbate for pleasure for three months- only to get blood flowing for jelqs .

It seems edging might help me last longer in bed, even though I ain't old enough yet, but I've read here that masturbation can lead to lower gains. Is it worth me edging at this beginners' stage and will it only cause my newb gains to take longer to occur?

[adamcubul]

I am trying to juggle PE, edging, gymming and getting with my girl all at the same time. They all revolve around my girl sucking me off every few days.

So kingpole's views are very clear ejaculate ejaculate ejaculate! But my ideal situation would be PE and edge (without ejaculating) for 2 days, then in my off day have my girl do it for me

Sound good?

[INTP]

I can hold a kegel for 45 minutes. It is not a strong clinching kegel, more like a moderate BC kegel.

Holy Mother of......

[kingpole]

Holy Mother of......

Yep....dick is out of shhape now at best at present i could posssibly hold a moderate kegel for 5 minutes.

[aidan784]

hey kingpole, it's awesome that you're back posting! Hope all is on the up for you! I took the time to read through all of your log yesterday and while I realise that most of that was a cementing routine, when you were in your growing period did you have a specific routine? And did you have a specific kegel routine to get to the point where you could hold one for 45 minutes or was it just random holds throughout the day? Sorry if this is in the wrong place to ask, welcome back!

[Savy]

I edged today for my first time,and i've got a pretty good time : 58 minutes.I could've gone longer but it started to become frustrating.So,i'm wondering if i did ok:
I had a couple of points of no return after i stroke it a lil' faster because i was bored(the rest of the time i've gone slow),but i didn't really have to kegel.I just went a little slower and i felt a weird sensation:like something was building up in the base of my penis.Possibly the explosion i've heard some of you talk about.And when i ejaculated,it was weird,the first load got on my chin(i was lying back and i'm a pretty tall guy-by the way : NOT COOL)the second and third were also pretty high,and the ammount of sperm was almost double.

P.S.:I did kegel sometimes but not when i was in the PONR.