Edging 101

[bighead]

Hi, I am totally new to this and only recently discovered pegym. I am kind of confused on how to edge. Do I just stroke the bottom half of my shaft when erect until I feel like cumming? I've been reading through this thread for a couple of days for some trial and error responses. I've only started yesterday and.. it took me quite awhile to "edge". I mean I have a history of masturbating so I just thought I would just stroke my entire shaft and stop suddenly when I feel like I'm about to cum. So is edging the same thing except just stroking the bottom half of the shaft? and I've read about the ejaculation coming out creamier <-- I am experiencing this so am I doing something right?

[oggy12]

Finished my first edging session last night lasting 20 minuites ive tried edging before but wasn't success full but now i have introduced RKs.
i do these when ever i feel a kegel or as i reach PONR and then i stop and do 20 quick RK and i this made me last alot longer. I also am trying to DO last i night i did it at the end and it was very intense but i stopped right at the end and a little bit came out but im defiantly improving! Thanks everyone.

[777heaven]

Great post. I think this will be useful for anyone not sure how to edge, like myself...haha. I read somewhere you can kegel also to help yourself from ejaculating instead of just stopping the strokes. Kegeling is what practice for your PC muscles for certain exercises like this, right? I thought edging also was to increase the amount you spray.

Thanks again, KP.

Before I discovered the great world of PE in 2003 (of course I quit in a month lol) I was a big time reader and stumbled across pc muscle work in my local library when I was a pre teen....yes..... Like in the early nineties! But I didn't apply it until around 18/19. But boy, when it's strong, I can squeeze fight that nut away. Girls actually found it hot that I could say wait!...and then do it more.. But be careful, it gets too close and your dick may think you really did cum and go down a notch.

[mvergasioin]

Hi, I am totally new to this and only recently discovered pegym. I am kind of confused on how to edge. Do I just stroke the bottom half of my shaft when erect until I feel like cumming? I've been reading through this thread for a couple of days for some trial and error responses. I've only started yesterday and.. it took me quite awhile to "edge". I mean I have a history of masturbating so I just thought I would just stroke my entire shaft and stop suddenly when I feel like I'm about to cum. So is edging the same thing except just stroking the bottom half of the shaft? and I've read about the ejaculation coming out creamier <-- I am experiencing this so am I doing something right?

Edging, quite simplified, is stimulating yourself until you decide or your dick decides not to continue anymore. The stimulation can lead to a regular ejaculation (creamy or standard, depending upon the circumstances), a so called dry orgasm (DO) where the wet ejaculation is replaced by orgasmic sensations and you may or may not continue, or thirdly you can choose to stop stimulating before you cum. Different guys have different strokes they like to use, but basically stimulate yourself any way that pleases you.

When you reach the PONR, you have to decide which path you will take. A strongly held regular kegel may stop a wet orgasm and timely applied reverse kegels can immediately reduce your arousal level so you can either continue edging, or if you are lucky and willing, continue into a dry orgasm. Basically the idea is to manage your arousal level over an extended period of time so that you can move towards your desired outcome.

See the Edging 101 thread located amongst the popular posts. You can also look at the groups, PONR, and Multiple Male Orgasm for supplemental information.

Good luck. Edging is a fine journey into the unknown.

[Jelq]

This happens with long sessions of edging or ballooning. I think the spew is ticker more vicous and does not eject as far. Its creamer am i right.

Sorry for the late reply KP, The PeGYM forum does not have a feature where I can check posts I commented in.

It was a little creamier, the contractions were a little delayed but the cum was just pouring out like as if I was taking a piss.

[bighead]

Edging, quite simplified, is stimulating yourself until you decide or your dick decides not to continue anymore. The stimulation can lead to a regular ejaculation (creamy or standard, depending upon the circumstances), a so called dry orgasm (DO) where the wet ejaculation is replaced by orgasmic sensations and you may or may not continue, or thirdly you can choose to stop stimulating before you cum. Different guys have different strokes they like to use, but basically stimulate yourself any way that pleases you.

When you reach the PONR, you have to decide which path you will take. A strongly held regular kegel may stop a wet orgasm and timely applied reverse kegels can immediately reduce your arousal level so you can either continue edging, or if you are lucky and willing, continue into a dry orgasm. Basically the idea is to manage your arousal level over an extended period of time so that you can move towards your desired outcome.

See the Edging 101 thread located amongst the popular posts. You can also look at the groups, PONR, and Multiple Male Orgasm for supplemental information.

Good luck. Edging is a fine journey into the unknown.

Thanks for the response! I was just confused because I thought there would be a real technical way to edge. I am not sure if I am experiencing dry orgasms because I am a little scared to reach my PONR (making a mess). Most of the time, I guess I just have the regular wet ejaculations. Sometimes, I have this small orgasm that produces a little cum, like a droplet. Does that mean I am getting close to my first dry orgasm? I also tried not to cum by doing a "strong" kegel but for some reason, the kegel turns me on.. and I can't help it. Is my kegel not strong enough? Thanks again.

[Pegasus]

There are many ways to edge, some more technique than others.
We have a mmo and DO group if you are interested in that area.

[mvergasioin]

Thanks for the response! I was just confused because I thought there would be a real technical way to edge. I am not sure if I am experiencing dry orgasms because I am a little scared to reach my PONR (making a mess). Most of the time, I guess I just have the regular wet ejaculations. Sometimes, I have this small orgasm that produces a little cum, like a droplet. Does that mean I am getting close to my first dry orgasm? I also tried not to cum by doing a "strong" kegel but for some reason, the kegel turns me on.. and I can't help it. Is my kegel not strong enough? Thanks again.

There's a lot of learning and experimenting to do. Join the groups as Pegasus suggests.

Also a good start (which I unfortunately did not read until recently) is an article by Pegasus and Pirate entitled "the Dry Orgasm" listed under the "articles " heading on the left side of the pegym menu bar.

You are on the right track big head. Just continue the quest along with the rest of us and enjoy the ride!

[Pegasus]

From memory there is also an edging group.

[bighead]

Thanks y'all, I've just read the article! Time to begin my journey