Edging 101

[ThirdArm]

Research delayed ejaculation. You're used to that stimulus and now you need it to get off. How frequently do you masturbate? You'll find that if you take some time off and wait until you're actually very aroused, there will be more sensation and it will be more pleasurable (and quicker).

You can bring back some sensation by protecting your glans throughout the day with a YourSkin Cone or a Manhood - really anything designed to prevent the glans from rubbing against your underwear. In fact, loss of sensation is one reason that men decide to restore their foreskin (assuming you're circumcised).

Eventually, try to decrease that stimulation by being more gentle. You can focus on the glans when you masturbate, kind of like how women can get off with a clitoral orgasm even without penetration. Hey, we're hardwired similarly in some regards.

Finally, try more erotic thoughts. I know it sounds like something women would prefer, but have you ever tried erotic stories instead of porn? Sometimes an exciting story line can be more erotic than porn.

[The Next Big Thing]

I always edge for 10-15 minutes after my routine, but lot of people say its not good to orgasm after PE session, there has to be at least 2 hours space between them, they say. But I also read that each 3rd edging session should be ended by orgasm, because its not healthy, to always hold the pressure back and never release it. But if I release it, it will not be 2 hours from my PE session. So please give me some advice, what should I do? I read that edging right after PE routine is more beneficial than doing it separately, but also from time to time you should ejaculate after edging, but ejaculation after PE is not good. So where is the truth?

[PsychonautDude]

Research delayed ejaculation. You're used to that stimulus and now you need it to get off. How frequently do you masturbate? You'll find that if you take some time off and wait until you're actually very aroused, there will be more sensation and it will be more pleasurable (and quicker).

You can bring back some sensation by protecting your glans throughout the day with a YourSkin Cone or a Manhood - really anything designed to prevent the glans from rubbing against your underwear. In fact, loss of sensation is one reason that men decide to restore their foreskin (assuming you're circumcised).

Eventually, try to decrease that stimulation by being more gentle. You can focus on the glans when you masturbate, kind of like how women can get off with a clitoral orgasm even without penetration. Hey, we're hardwired similarly in some regards.

Finally, try more erotic thoughts. I know it sounds like something women would prefer, but have you ever tried erotic stories instead of porn? Sometimes an exciting story line can be more erotic than porn.

Yes I know I have this sadly Thank you very much for your response I will definitely start practicing that

[PsychonautDude]

I have a question about edging. What is the purpose exactly? To maintain the hardest erection possible for the longest duration possible? Or does one need to go to the PONR? Because I can keep an extremely rock solid erection by playing with myself in a way that will not allow me to reach the PONR, and when I do reach the PONR my penis is not as hard. So is reaching PONR important, or just maintaining the hardest possible erection?

[Pegasus]

That depends what your goals are. people tend to have too narrow a view of what edging is.

[PsychonautDude]

My goals are just to increase EQ, health, and size. I don't have any issues with premature ejaculation.

[Pegasus]

So for you ponr is not so important.

[jcarrier]

To be on the safe side and not to get in the way of gains, how often a week can one blow off a load after edging?

[PsychonautDude]

So for you ponr is not so important.

Thanks, I guessed as much

[Nikos23]

Do you notice Increase EQ? with Edging? before you start doing it and after?