Newbie Confused

[MusicMan]

Hi all, I have just registered with you guys today but have been looking over the site the last couple of days and have been following the 90 day newbie guide the last 2 days.
I have 2 things im a bit baffled about...
I have always considered myself as "small" but research shows im average I havnt measured myself properly yet as im on holiday and a ruler isnt easily available, but at a guess i would say im probly around 5.5' and 3.5-4' my girth is what im mainly looking to improve first as that is under average.
The strange part on my half is that these "kegels" apparently there hard to do at first... Well I have always had a rampant sexual appetite im 23 now and throughout my teenage years I would often masturbate upwards of 5 times per day, time permitting, I could continually orgasm without going soft, I havnt tried this for a long time now as it takes so long for the second orgasm I get bored. But to the point > when I tried these kegels they were not hard for me to do at all,and I can hold it upwards of 30 seconds and the towel kegels were no problem. So i thought I would try the multiple orgasm tecnique and suprisingly I restrained myself and only a little semen came out, and I continued to full orgasm later. Is this a real multiple orgasm or should no semen at all of came out? The other thing im a little confused about it these jelqs and kegels make my erection harder for longer... But as I can maintain my erection not fully but never going flacid for as long as I would like within reason, and when im fully aroused it is "as hard as a brick" is this normal or not? because the only other penis's I have seen have been in porn, and they never look anywhere near as hard as me... Im just a bit baffled, maybe I have been training in some way I had no idea about and im already a little more advanced in the "harder for longer" part of the training. Any help to clear up this little mystery would be greatly appreciated. Sorry another little thing I always seem to ejaculate really quickly the first time, but with this new multiple orgasm thing I can control it, but is it a premature ejaculation problem or is it because I just want to blow my load? is there some mental tecnique for controlling the first orgasm? thanks again any help greatly appreciated.

[kingpole]

you have a healthy erection. Those porn stars don't. They have to work harder to get it up! The thing is if one is big like a porn star you need PE to keep that big dick up.
Your kegaling sounds fine.
Edging or ballooning teach you to blow your load when you want to. It sounds like you already have good control.
Welcome to PeGym!

[JonPop]

Hey KP. I liked your suggestion that every time you read the word "Kegel'"
you do 10 Kegels. This has greatly helped me to remember to do mine. If there is only one Kegel in the post, I'll do 30. Dang, I just wrote the word Kegel three times now and now I have to go and do 3..oops, 4 sets of 10. Hee

[Hairtrigger]

Kegel, the kegel I use has a kegel on both kegel's, once the kegel gets warmed up you can kegel the other kegel until it kegel's too.


I appologize for that, kegel rant......kegel kegel.

[JonPop]

Um...Thanks buddy. I just had to do 110 Kegels...Make that 120. Arghh.